Learn to be positive. If you keep moaning about your life, other people will only notice the bad aspects of your character and categorize you as a person who is 'Boring' or worse. Who wants to spend time with a wet blanket...? Go to places where people are positive and support you with positive thoughts. One of the key things that you need to remember is to never be discouraged; failure is a part of life, and it happens naturally. If you are so disillusioned that you never want to try again, at least be comforted by the fact that you made an attempt...!