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Boredom between two people doesn't come from being together, physically,,,,,,it comes from being apart , mentally and spiritually ,,,,,,,,,,,what we do not to get bored ,,,,can we ever promise for the future ??? good morning friend--

Asked by Wife Supreme, 25 May '09 07:51 am
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Wonderful words indeed..! Ofcourse boredom sets in not because of physical proximity but because of mental block between two people. When two people vibe well physical distance isn't a distance at all. but when two people start distancing themselves because of their difference in opinions and difference in their approaches and start getting snared by the cloud of misunderstanding then the two become apart....we can promise for the future to not to get bored by keeping the relationship active and vigrous by adding punch to our thoughts and by adding a pinch of humour and sensitivity and closing the distance...thank you for a great question..!
Answered by inquisitive, 25 May '09 07:57 am

 
  
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Boredom comes when communication between two fades. By being together, they can be mentally apart also. Sprituality is subjective. Mutual interest and love guard the relationship from boredom. But any relationship will pause thro some fatique. We have to overcome it to make it lively.
Answered by sankaran subbiah, 26 May '09 03:57 pm

 
  
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If you\'re alive, you got to flap your arms and legs, you got to jump around a lot, you got to make a lot of noise, because life is the very opposite of death. Lets have a merry journey and shout about how light is good and dark is not. What we should do is not future ourselves so much. We should now ourselves more. Now thyself is more important than Know thyself. Reason is what tells us to ignore the present and live in the future. So all we do is make plans. We think that somewhere there are going to be green pastures. Its crazy. Heaven is nothing but a grand, monumental instance of the future. Listen, now is good. Now is wonderful. ...we shall forever return to the arms of those we love, whether our parting be overnight or over-death. Love is always a season Each day of the year; So give someone a smile Or a word of good cheer. ...what you love will find a way to sweep you up from the earth, high into its joyful scary answers for every question you can ask.
Answered by Mrinalendra Banerjee, 25 May '09 09:21 am

 
  
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Boredom can only come from indifference, insincerity to each other and inability to be a good listener and at the same time inability to open up one\'s feelings to lay it out in the open to those who truly matter to us in our life ... as we journey through this life. Indifference is unconcern, apathy devoid of emotional reactions and an attitude of \'seeming not to care\'. Thus what you said is true. Boredom sets in when there is a drifting apart mentally and spiritually with a mental block to appreciate the other person, a side product of hidden egos that are cleverly hidden or masked by justifications of our own actions. Let go off such things and connect with the person who means so much to us, reach out and reach in to the self, let go even a trace of unconcern, show true humility in listening out to the other person and then watch the dialogues and conversations unfold - it will never turn out to be a monologues between two deaf people and it will never be a boring a ...more
Answered by Omega, 25 May '09 09:51 pm

 
  
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Nice question indeed...... I have little bit different experience, and therefore my vews are different too... Boredom comes from nowhere.....it just sets in, because we all have wavering minds.......we do not accommodate others, and in turn do not give a way to their thoughts....it comes because we do not respect others\' views, and the same thing is reciprocated to us as well. and because we just talk & listen to ourselves therefore we get bored. I always appreciated if two people have different interests & so they can have to share a lot with each other.....Yes, spirituality, to some extent is something which is required for a relationship to grow, because through it we learn to open up the knots, & allow a breathing space to each other......The main cause is being ME & MYSELF, without considering anything else..... Someone has rightly said, Na tha kuchh to khuda tha, Kuchh na hota, to khuda hota, Duboya mujhko hone ne....... Na hota mai to kya hota.... ...more
Answered by Alankrita Basu, 25 May '09 04:11 pm

 
  
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We Indians are not / have never been an expressive lot...when it comes to a relationship...what surprises the most is the feeling of bonhomie dissapearing into something forced...after the initial euphoria of love and physicality wears off.! It should come from the depths of feel...the inner depths of our heart and soul...and it has to be rejuvenated and felt all the time. Maybe if one were good friends before blossoming into soul mates...it would make a perceptible difference in expressiveness. after all...and after a certain period...the best relationship amongst life mates is friendship...!
Answered by prasoon, 25 May '09 01:59 pm

 
  
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Two people can get bored even in togetherness if either or both of them are boring. It is because boredom comes from the boring mind. If two are apart mentally and spiritually then too they will be bored even if they are together. Again it is because they will not be able to experience that affectionate closeness. Therefore, what must we do not to get bored? The one who seeks rest gets boredom and the one who seek work gets rest. Eric Hoffer had said, \"When people are bored, it is primarily with their own selves that they are bored.\".
Answered by Jack Johnson, 25 May '09 08:56 am

 
  
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Sur i gree with by mind they shud be togrther
Answered by Dinesh C S, 25 May '09 08:03 am

 
  
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