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Why does sometimes even a steady relationship or a good friendship go down hill?

Tags: relationships, good friendship, steady relationship
Asked by Ginger, 14 Jun '13 06:48 pm
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Relationships go down the hill because of a few prominent reasons like--taking the relationship for granted..introvert nature..finding other people..controlling nature of a person..abusive or dominant partner..drifting apart..effort to build the relations further stops..
Answered by Anurag Sharma, 15 Jun '13 01:20 pm

 
  
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Monotony
Answered by Quest, 15 Jun '13 12:01 pm

 
  
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Each and every relationship on earth has a beginning and and end......and many waxing and waning in between! We are expected to LEARN and GROW from our relationships and acquaintances. That is the PRIME PURPOSE, not sustaining the relationship per se, which is only secondary.
Answered by Shunmugham, 15 Jun '13 08:12 am

 
  
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Sometimes for want of understanding and compatibility....!
Answered by Dil Se, 14 Jun '13 09:17 pm

 
  
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Mostly breach of trust, or some unpalatable relationship with some other person make relationship complicated.. One loses interest and the other makes a tamasha. In one moment the relationship goes down the hill.
Answered by subhash, 14 Jun '13 09:02 pm

 
  
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If they begin losing mutual trust,mutual understanding,forgivenss,tolerance and are overpowered by suspecision ,arrogance,utter lack of tolerance:-)
Answered by apsaikia, 14 Jun '13 08:29 pm

 
  
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Due to misunderstanding and over expectations.
Answered by anantharaman, 14 Jun '13 07:56 pm

 
  
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May be due to carelessness
Answered by PLAY BOY, 14 Jun '13 07:16 pm

 
  
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Both get bored of each other
Answered by Insane Guy, 14 Jun '13 06:58 pm

 
  
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There are five areas of relationship compatibility, namely spiritual compatibility, social compatibility, emotional compatibility, intellectual compatibility and physical compatibility. Out of these 5 , emotional compatibility is the most important , may be taking sixty to seventy percent of lion's share ....... and this is broken by 2 major killers

- not respecting the differences
- undue expectations

Quite natural to have expectations in a relationship, granted, but when these expectations start mismatching, that's the beginning of the lack of communication, causing not to respect the differences.
Detached Attachment is the ability to appreciate these potential pitfalls, be sensitive to them and accommodate and account for them. Communicate right. Expect nothing more than love. Live with the fact that the level of maturity of your partner is different from yours. And all this in the right quantities - don't overwhelm your partner. Let her have the breathing space to respond i ...more
Answered by PARTHA PATHAK, 14 Jun '13 06:58 pm

 
  
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