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How To Get Back The Lost Trust ?
Asked by commonsense,
22 Mar '10 04:02 pm
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1. Admit your mistake or the way you hurt the other person
This is the most difficult step in re-building trust. Address the issue that caused the loss of trust head on. If it was you not cherishing your spouse, or treating your marriage as a sacred trust, or lying, or mistreating the other person, or not fulfilling a promise... whatever... address the issue and ask forgiveness. Asking forgiveness for some vague, stupid unrelated behavior will be considered by the offended person as one more step into the destruction of trust! It's simply insulting. My recommendation? If you have betrayed someone's trust, don't talk to that person until you understand what you did wrong and you are ready to deal with it honestly. Admitting your mistake honestly is not something you do to "move on" with "your" life; it's something you do to re-establish a broken relationship, to reconcile and regain that person's trust, which is a big issue; regaining trust is not about "your" own selfish pain!
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Answered by parul advani, 22 Mar '10 09:23 pm
This is the most difficult step in re-building trust. Address the issue that caused the loss of trust head on. If it was you not cherishing your spouse, or treating your marriage as a sacred trust, or lying, or mistreating the other person, or not fulfilling a promise... whatever... address the issue and ask forgiveness. Asking forgiveness for some vague, stupid unrelated behavior will be considered by the offended person as one more step into the destruction of trust! It's simply insulting. My recommendation? If you have betrayed someone's trust, don't talk to that person until you understand what you did wrong and you are ready to deal with it honestly. Admitting your mistake honestly is not something you do to "move on" with "your" life; it's something you do to re-establish a broken relationship, to reconcile and regain that person's trust, which is a big issue; regaining trust is not about "your" own selfish pain!
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Not so easy
still stay on track so that the trust finds its way back
Answered by anil garg, 03 Sep '10 01:40 pm
still stay on track so that the trust finds its way back
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