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On what things, your happiness depends. ?

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Asked by kishore malhotra, 01 Aug '10 09:55 pm
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Its mainly on my child's happiness. if he is happy , i too am happy.
the other things include my family as well as my job.
Answered by deepa, 01 Aug '10 10:04 pm

 
  
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100 %Happiness depends on A MIND without the following negative elements:--
curiosity,anger/rage,annoyance,disgust,contemt,,rese ntment,boredom,sadness ,grief,moodlessless,fear,(worry about any thing like,theft,disease,failure, health)pride/vengeance,anxiety,doubts, guilt,embarrasment,disappointment,frustration,jeoulosy,shame,desp air,distress,home-sickness
Some of the elements are of low intensity and some are of high intensity
Some primary emotions combine together and form secondary emotions.(for.eg.anger+pride=outrageor vengeance)
In short,happiness depends on a tension free mind.
Conflicting thoughts agitate the mind leading to loss of peace
All the above negative elements build up tension some time or other.
Hence happiness is only an episode in the general drama of pain.
With mutual DISCUSSION/COUNCILLING/understanding, auto suggestions,adjustments,removal of ignorance ,love, respect,doubt clearance,hygiene,clealines ...more
Answered by Divakaran Athrampatta, 01 Aug '10 11:05 pm

 
  
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Honesty, love, loyalty, kindness and sincerity
Answered by mere dil, 01 Aug '10 10:32 pm

 
  
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Things have the materialistic value and they can never give you real happiness. So, you need to correct your question. If we want to seek real happiness then that has to be out of our contentment.
Answered by mike, 01 Aug '10 10:28 pm

 
  
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True happiness comes in doing things you are supposed to do as per our dharma and not doing those things you are not supposed to do as per our dharma.
Answered by Haalayudha Dattuni, 01 Aug '10 10:16 pm

 
  
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Sir mera khayal hai ki thet hindi me kaha jaai to yeh hamari sharirik aur baudhik aukaat ko sweekarna. agar hum layak nahi hai to hame apeksha bhi nahi karni chahiye. jaise kehte hai First deserve then desire. mere jeewan me meri jitni baudhik shakti, sharirik shakti thee Khuda ke fazal se kuch jyadaa hi mila to main is nazariye se hamesha khush rehta hun. be content with what you have. as is said there is no limit to wants. secndly some are unfortunate also for which they deserve and are entitled but they they dont get ab jindagi hai hi aaisee..
Answered by sharad sharad, 01 Aug '10 10:08 pm

 
  
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It depends on one's own mindset. You are precisely what you think of yourself. If you consider yourself happy, you are happy. If you consider yourself unhappy, you are unhappy. if everybody tell that you are happy, but you don't think so, then you are not happy.
Answered by soumyen sarkar, 01 Aug '10 10:07 pm

 
  
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Self-satisfaction by your deeds.In place of impressing anyone else,just impress your own soul.If your soul approves of your steps,no matter what others view be.
Answered by vishwabandhubajpai, 01 Aug '10 10:06 pm

 
  
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U'r happiness depends on u.....outer event cn never take it away from u!
Answered by harshal kalangutkar, 01 Aug '10 10:03 pm

 
  
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Ultimately it depend on me and me alone.....but some love and support of family and friends does help.
Answered by blue ocean, 01 Aug '10 10:02 pm

 
  
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