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Some have a unique way of enjoying the blessings and gifts they get in life.They suck all the fun out by being overly protective and apprehensive.Please comment on this opinion.

Asked by Rohit Soni, 09 Jun '09 12:39 pm
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Each and every blessings and gifts are cared for , some do get over protective some behave rationally ,depends upon their life experiences and the insecurities they have , as long as the gifts and blessings are there in life ,we stay happy and blessed , therefore we need to be protective about them and you cant change ones nature if they are apprehensive and over protective cos they know how it feels without those gifts n blessings of life .
Answered by parul advani, 10 Jun '09 02:28 am

 
  
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Sir ,Thanks for another good question
Beyond limits for anything is bad .
In the Middle Course with Spending
The Noble Qur'an - al-Talaaq 65:7
Let the rich man spend according to his means, and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allaah has given him
The Noble Qur'an - 17:26
And give to the kindred his due and to the Miskn (poor) and to the wayfarer. But spend not wastefully (your wealth) in the manner of a spendthrift* . [Tafsir. At-Tabar, Vol. 10, Page 158 (Verse 9: 60)].
*You have to follow a middle course in your spendings --- neither a miser nor a spendthrift, and not to be like those who spend in the disobedience of Allah and His Messenger saaws.
Noble Quran 2:188
And eat up not one another'
Almighty Allah says: (And eat not up your property among yourselves in vanity, nor seek by it to gain the hearing of the judges that ye may knowingly devour a portion of the property of others wrongfully. ) (Al-Baqarah 2: 188) Almighty Alla ...more
Answered by salmanfarsi, 09 Jun '09 02:34 pm

 
  
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Everyone has a right to enjoy the gifts and blessings as per his nature. Apprehensions and so called overprotectionism is too individualistic to be generalized and depends upon age, maturity, cultural upbringing and past experiences both happy and dreadful. What matters enjoyment and happiness given and shared btween giver and taker of blessings and gifts.
Answered by Ramesh Kalra, 09 Jun '09 12:51 pm

 
  
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One has the authority to utilise what he/she owns and deserves to own. But, it would be definitely nice, if one do care feelings of others while enjoying own good fortune. If it is that way, people will respect. Else, the unlucky have nots will become sad and envy, especially the young people.
Answered by Krishnakumar Narayanan, 09 Jun '09 07:23 pm

 
  
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