Even after 30 years still we (Both spouse) love each other. Many a time it happens that spouses get engrossed in their routine work - specially after birth of a child in the family (who becomes center), they don't realise importance to spare prime time for each other (spouse) - resulting in reduced love. If this happened try for the following:
1) Romantic Love : Is the passion between you and your partner same as it was during your courtship days? If not, you have to rekindle the romance. Many of us stop appreciating our partner after some time. The same hair or the same body that was praised so highly, gets ignored. Please restart telling your partner how you love his/her qualities and how that attracts you madly in love to him/her.
2) Talk :Talk about everything with your partner. Tell all that is in your mind and find out all that is bothering him/her. Be supportive in the talk and be a true friend. Stand besides your partner in everything and try to reduce his/her
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My problem was in not loving any one including myself. Unless you love yourself, you can't love another being. Then I found God in the form of dogs (one after another, we now have the third one) and then Guru found me! Now I love myself and all others. I may not agree intellectually with them but I love them because they are part of myself! Sai Ram.