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Life isn't fair at all...so a lot of our kind complain,yet it sure is fairer than death. Hw hopeful and positive should one stay in life,to make sure,life gets its due too?

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Asked by shintsie, 08 Sep '09 09:25 pm
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Life to me is a roller coaster full of ups & downs which even out in the long run but one needs to keep himself motivated & stay focussed on the final goal to be achieved & not feel hampered by the roadblocks in life, its best to live by the moment rather than being stuck in the past or the future!!
Answered by dharamender nebhnani, 08 Sep '09 09:37 pm

 
  
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I guess; always PLAY own role positive ! With least strings attached ! as for death; who knows that may also gives a new experience ... but, before that; give life its worth too ...
Answered by Praveen Kapur, 09 Sep '09 01:00 am

 
  
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Fix The targets
Approach it with dediaction and innovative way.
-While doing this, Life may look like a game.But Win once,, You will feel happy and love to live.
Answered by hitler, 08 Sep '09 09:27 pm

 
  
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Life is certainly not fair or a bed of roses for a majority of people.However each one of us has certain hopes and some dreams and we work to achieve them.One should be always positive and try to create happyness by achieving success or at least a part of it.Death is certainly the greatest relief but 'Maangne se jo maut mil jaati, kaun jeeta phir is zamaane mein?"
Answered by HEMANT MEHTA, 08 Sep '09 09:30 pm

 
  
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Complaints are the indications of failures... why to complain when the role given to us is decided by God. We have to play it the way He wants. All cannot be the hero or the main character of the play. Some body has to stand by the side and someone has to even raise or lower the curtain... So no complaints...just live the life the way it comes to us...
Answered by sanjay sharma, 11 Sep '09 05:30 am

 
  
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Stress and strain or tragedy makes it difficult to remain positive and hopeful all the time but when things get too tough to handle, one can take the help of a friend or family to regain one's strength to fight. being positive does a world of good. you lead a hopeful life, you have goals and you take care of your responsibilities.
Answered by nargis bhambi, 09 Sep '09 01:18 am

 
  
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Geoffrey Boycott, while encountered almost a certain death, and having realising the naked truth, quoted saying"I have spent each moment of my life till date thinking than nothing is important than cricket in my life....but I was absolutely wrong in my assessment..." He was right...one of the most simple things to be understood by each of us, but we are not willing to understand....blame goes to life..."life is not fair"..."nothing left in my life" or "lie has become hell"....but , we need to realise , whether this sort of feeling has any bearing with the reality that journey which needs to be completed at any cost , and the same sud be completed gracefully...of course myself is not the exception forming part of d masses often go thru such traumatic feeling..." optimism or positivities are not d number games...and nothing is required to be proved by any individual at all...neither its a race...just , we sud try concentrate more in wat we are enjoying as compared to wat we are not enjoy ...more
Answered by bijoy agarwala, 08 Sep '09 10:20 pm

 
  
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There is nothing unfair in life.We feel cheated when it does not measure up to our expectations, that may be unrealistically high.If we look around us, we will find a wide range in the social strata of our society.And it all depends in which strata we are born in and our upbringing in life. If we can break free from these shackles of negative thought, we will realize that this is a wonderful world.
Answered by mohanbirsingh ghura, 08 Sep '09 09:46 pm

 
  
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Live and let others too live policy will yield some desired results...because everything depends on how you take things and people in life as you proceed with day-to-day activities...!
Answered by Dil Se, 08 Sep '09 09:31 pm

 
  
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Life isn't fair at all....say those who are unproductive and have negative mind...........basically the losers. Life is there to live every moment. The more time you have for regrets, the more miserable you will be.
Answered by Lumpen, 10 Sep '09 02:00 pm

 
  
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