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Habitual/compulsive flirts find it difficult to stay committed to one person,and reciprocate true love...what is your take on this ?

Asked by shintsie, 20 Mar '09 01:20 am
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I am sure that they can reciprocate true love, the only trouble they have is remaining faithful to that love! You will never change a compulsive philanderer, they have to constantly prove themselves again and again. Surprisingly they are least able to cope if the tables are turned on them and their own partner seeks attention from someone else - they become indignant, angry and can cry like babies totally unable to take a bit of their own medicine which they expect others to turn a blind eye to and put up with over the years! Strange that !
Answered by Janis, 20 Mar '09 01:30 am

 
  
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I suppose it is a very apt statement about compulsive flirts ...It is a kind of some psychological blockade in their mind about getting committed which tend to force them to be agile in switching choices...may be they feel proud in satisfying their ego of being more important than others ..!!
Answered by rocky robust, 20 Mar '09 01:25 am

 
  
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True! Whatever you said! They are a blot on this world full of true love!
Answered by sameer, 20 Mar '09 02:35 am

 
  
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Compulsive flirts can stay committed to one true love but still cannot give up their flirting simply because they believe it is harmless and more often than not they back off the minute the other person flirts back. Mostly they are all bark and no bite except ofcourse few truly infidel people who do not genuinely care abt others and are selfish to the core.
Answered by anonymouse, 20 Mar '09 01:50 am

 
  
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In one of ur answers, u have mentioned that if you ever get a chance/opportunity, you wud like to settle forever in d valley of Lahaul Spiti under snow-capped mountains in HP.....I have selected in a similar manner d place , i.e. out skirts of Manali towards Rohatang-Pass...why...? Though we go on holiday every year, may be half yearly or otherwise and enjoy the infinite romance of nature at its origin....and start wondering at unimaginable creatures of d almighty...but when we leave d places , we forget most of them, but a few of them remain wid us forever and we try to visit there over and over again...as if we dont want to go anywhere other than d place which had already stolen ur heart permanently....a person wid a habit of flirting is also an human being and does have the sweet heart too....sometime or d other , d heart stops working getting a company of a person , its been looking for....there the so called flirting has to face an immature death...and d heart gets its re-birth in ...more
Answered by bijoy agarwala, 03 Apr '09 02:03 pm

 
  
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They are always in search of greener pastures. Suddenly they realise thay have left behind a gem somewhere in time......by the time they try and get back, it is, more often than not, TOO LATE to make amends
Answered by Lion Heart, 20 Mar '09 04:06 pm

 
  
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Thats wrong. I can say about myself.........I am a compulsive die hard flirt........but I have always given true love in all my relations. No girl can complain about THAT.
Answered by kush mathur, 24 Mar '09 10:03 pm

 
  
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Then it is not true LOVE. Just for fun, they move with others. But, the girls have intuitive power of mind and accordingly they also reciprocate, keeping such people away.
Answered by krishnaswamy thattai renganathaiyengar, 21 Mar '09 10:13 am

 
  
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:-))
Answered by prashant sharma, 20 Mar '09 08:52 pm

 
  
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As long as it does not involve any serious intentions flirting is harmless. Trouble brews only if the person gets involved each time he or she flirts. It is only then the person is not able to stay committed to one person and reciprocate true love.
Answered by Jack Johnson, 20 Mar '09 08:05 am

 
  
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