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Having the right over someone's heartbeats ; there is so much happiness in such bondage ,having dreams all the time about him or her ...why do some people still say ,.."pyaar se bhi zarroori kai kaam hein .,pyaar sab kuch nahi zindagi ke liye " what is more important than love ?

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Asked by parul advani, 17 May '10 08:28 pm
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First of all Parul, my compliments for posting such a beautiful question.
The song lines quoted by you are a philosophy of life. The philosophy in "pyaar se bhi zarroori kai kaam hein .,pyaar sab kuch nahi zindagi ke liye " in no way demeans the love, it rather decorates it. It means values of love are more important than the love itself. When a lover sacrifices her beloved to someone else, knowing very well, he himself is not going to live long, isn't that sacrifice bigger than love ? when a soldier goes on a war front , leaving his newly wed behind, isn't that devotion and dedication bigger than love.
Rightly said madam, at times certain things CAN be bigger than LOVE.
" Ham maantey hain ishq, ibaadat se kam nahin
Ye baat alag hai ki, kiska khuda hai kaun "
Answered by rajender jerath, 17 May '10 10:59 pm

 
  
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Love is the happiest thing comparing all other things in this world. Love is life if you deduct love from life then there will not remain anything.

To love someone is great thing but sometime it becomes hurdle for your success when someone forgets everything except love.

It is said that (There are lots of other important things then love) because when someone falls in love the person having dream all the time about him/her & does not care about his/her education, carrier, parents, friends etc.

If you are in love and still care about your education, carrier, relatives, and do not expand all time with your partner then that is very good I mean to say Yadi aap pyar mein ho aur apne zaroori kam nahi bhul rahe phir aapka pyar sahi hai nahi to nuksan dayak hai.

Best of luck to fall in love.
Answered by Pravash Jha, 18 May '10 02:56 pm

 
  
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Pyaar se bhi zarroori kam hai but pyar bhi zarroori hai zindagi ke liye .there are loi of important things in life but u will find life more pleasant when ur heartbeat of someone .its wonderful feeling to fall in love if u compare it to anything .if ur in love its doesnt mean tht uforget all other duties and responsibility .
Answered by vivek singh, 18 May '10 12:29 pm

 
  
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Trust is More Important Than Love. Once we lose trust, relationship is impossible. We can compromise it, and stick around for the ride but the truth is, once trust is gone, love can't flow.
In business, as has been proven over and over, people can't be trusted. Leave an employee near an open computer and they'll connect to the internet and waste time. Accuse them and they'll scream like you just shot them in the foot. Interesting isn't it.
The Ancient laws of nature predict this clearly. They suggest that we have within us, 7 levels of mind. The lowest of these exists in everyone, as well as the highest. That lowest mind is a devil in disguise. And cannot be trusted, in anyone.
The ancient laws of nature are difficult sometimes. They often require a personal honesty that is beyond the lower mind. An acceptance that what we judge in ourselves, we breed, attract or cause in others.
Answered by Dinesh Manaktala, 18 May '10 12:04 pm

 
  
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According to me love is important as well as outcome of love is also important. furhter we have to pull on days together for that work is also required which will fetch us our daily rquirement. to look after family money is also rquired. considering all this everything is important keeping love on top.
Answered by pramod rajapurkar, 18 May '10 10:47 am

 
  
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Dear parul,
like all parts are important in our body in life too we need all, we cannot just depend on one and live on that...so give equal importance to all when needed :)
Answered by manoj kumar, 18 May '10 09:31 am

 
  
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Human understading , compassion , sympathy. kindness, co-exisrence, empowering the needy
Answered by shambu, 18 May '10 06:55 am

 
  
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... a matter of individual perception and choice... due to habit conditioned by family/society with a sense of their own insecurity; for these guys are the only impediments in outshining and excelling of the individual self ... that is; given freedom; each one is distinguished and perfect ... instead of promoting ... they tend to pull back the growth of an individual; specially girls ... as Gandhi too accepted that love, freedom and welfare of individual is the supreme factor that determines the overall growth of any society on this planet ...
Answered by Praveen Kapur, 18 May '10 12:12 am

 
  
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When love is fresh, it takes our lot of time. We forget everything except the beloved. Nothing seems to be more important.. Then one day the beloved asks, "Dont you do anything for living? How will you pull on our home if I marry you ? " These words show the lover ground realities. Sheeven threatens him to leave, if he drowns in love only, and does not go on job. These words motivate him.. Love is assured, but the job is not .. he realises.. Further, he thinks about making his own family..I may add here, the same lines ,,, the beloved says,,

"Pyaar se bhi zaroori kaam hain,
Pyaar ki guaranntee to mai hoon,
par job nahee rahaa to sab nakaam hai
Kuchh to sochh apane family ke liye, dost,
Sirf pyaar sabkuchh nahee Zindagi ke liye"

A real beloved must bring his lover to ground realities.. If he does not come, everything is doomed.
Answered by subhash, 17 May '10 10:48 pm

 
  
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Her dil jo pyaar karega woh gana to gayega he ..
pyaar to bahot zaroori samaan hai zindagi ka
her cheez pyaar se karna chahiye
Love is feelings ..emotions as opposed to hate ..
the love is towards opposite gender parent child job society and so on
we have to love all in justice without tilting heavily towards one side ..
Addcition to one love should not bring feeling of injustice to other desrving one's ..
it all depends what kind of love we are talking about
love finds it's fullfillment under sincere commitment .. these commitments never stops us from dreaming or stop our heartbeats ... here the hearbeats are sure .secured and giving pure feelings ectasy ..lutf ..etc etc .. leading to fullfillment ...
Pyaar he sub kuch hai lekin pyaar hai kya ? .. pyaar ke jad ...roots ko mazboot karna zaroori hai taki dhoka gadi se bacha ja sake ...pachtawa se bacha ja sake ...
since emotion of love is related to hearts .. it is important our heart beats or generates other emotion ...more
Answered by commonsense, 17 May '10 10:17 pm

 
  
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