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Is sex good before marriage

Asked by Pandhari Morade, 13 Jul '07 10:01 am
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A great number of young people are getting into romantic relationships at an early age and many of them are engaging in premarital sex. Urbanization, the breakdown of traditional family systems and the influence of the mass media are some of the factors contributing to this increased sexual activity. The youth cite curiosity, peer influence, expectation of gifts and money, as well as force, as some of their reasons for engaging in premarital sex.
Psychologically, premarital sex also has its negative effects. With the youth engaging in sexual activity at such an early age, the possibility that one sexual partner is just using the other for sexual pleasure is real. When a sixteen-year-old boy or girl chooses to engage in premarital sex, genuine love and commitment to the partner cannot be presumed at all. The use and dump mentality can lead to psychological trauma in one who is unprepared for such consequences. Without the obligation for the two sexual partners to stay together and be ...more
Answered by PANIWALA A, 16 Jul '07 02:45 pm

 
  
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Its not advisable before marriage for the sake of our family prestiege, society, religion and culture.
Answered by Joseph Chacko, 13 Jul '07 05:00 pm

 
  
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I don't understand the Hype in this.when a boy and girl hv waited for 10 /12 yrs (after maturity) they can very well wait for few more days/months/yrs if their marriage is settled and enjoy the same.If U enjoy sex before then there is no thrill in the marriage and sex before marriage can be termed as agreed prostitution .Moreover if the couple or not getting married later than they are deceiving themselves as well as thier future partners.Pl note that we are in India and not in the west and our culture is different from west and we shld be proud of our culture which has the basic foundation in relationship ie the mutual trust and faithfulness among two partners.It shld be noted tat we are human beings and not dogs .
Answered by Harsha seshamurthy, 13 Jul '07 04:31 pm

 
  
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Sex is always good, before marriage after marriage, morning, evening, in moonlight sunlight .. tube light.. it is like normal thing, which is enjoyed by two persons. It is not a weird natural phenomenon which only happen in summer or winter. Don't hype it so much .. it is good to enjoy.. and those of u who r talking about not enjoying ur marriage life if u have done it before... what a crap ?? If u watch a movie it doesnt mean you cant enjoy the other one.. If u have played cricket in childhood so you cant enjoy it in ur old age...I don't think anybody is tired of eatig good food ?? And about Indian culture .. ha ha ha ha ha.. ha ha ha .. East, west north or south.. when we are happy, we smile.. When we are sad.. we cry.. Few things doesn't depend on the direction u live, but more on .. u are a human being... It is not like, some as*hole didn't get a chance to do it, he made a statement it is bad ..Or he has a right to hardcode it in books.. saying he was a loser..... Why we have to c ...more
Answered by dheeraj sarwaiya, 13 Jul '07 08:22 pm

 
  
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Depends.
If you ask a guy the answer is always a yes
If you ask a girl most of the time the answer is no. :)
Answered by saif r naik, 13 Jul '07 03:57 pm

 
  
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If sex is seen merely as sex then its not good at all in any way.but if sex is taken as another step in love,then its good because then it doesnt remain sex at all but another form of love................
Answered by nitu same, 13 Jul '07 04:22 pm

 
  
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According to me and medically its not advisible
Answered by nalini nalini, 13 Jul '07 04:48 pm

 
  
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It depends on the opportunity available for safe sex. one should not go out of way to have sex with professional sex worker. if one is getting the opportunity for safe sex before marraige why not?
Answered by PAPPU, 13 Jul '07 04:37 pm

 
  
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Sex is always good before or after marriage. Before marriage there is different kind of excitement may be u can compare it to bunking classes in school for the first time. but after marriage u feel that its legal now so u feel free from inside and the enjoyment is totally different. So all u girls and guys just go for it enjoy the best of both worlds
Answered by Anamika Arora, 14 Jul '07 09:56 am

 
  
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Let's us be very frank do we accept our wives after knowing that she had pre marrige sex with her friend. Forget our culture society>>>> afterall we all are making our culture and becoming part of society, or do we allow our childrens to have same relationships ???? Sure NOOOOOOO then why one shoud be so partial and diferentiating with in, Let's ask ourself prior to give our unreasonable thinking/ views. Why such QA are part of this session surprised >>>>>
Answered by Rajeev Sharma, 13 Jul '07 04:43 pm

 
  
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