My boyfren is dam posesiv.he askd me nt2 wear my black top n go 2 college bt 2day i did.n he gt2 no abt it.he says i dnt listen2 him.so he left me.wat2 do?i realy luv n i realy do listen2 him.bt he abused mw n wen bt i cnt liv widout him.
Looks like you love this man too much but he does not. If he is a loving persons, he should not mind you wearing dresses with colour of your choice. Those who love others tolerate such things and help the persons they love to be happy. He wants to dominate you which is not good in the long run. You need to chose to obey his meaningless instructions or to leave him and I think it is better for you to look for someone who loves you from his heart. This persons wants to control you. It is time you decided. It may be difficult to live as his wife if he is possessive and of dominating nature.