I will be meeting a guy after few days for matri mony purpose.This is my 1st meet ,1stime...i would like to k nw how can i be able to judge weather he is right person or not?weather he is true or fake?
See my definition of a good husband is that how much space he gives you after the marriage? How much he respect you? how much free you can feel with him when you will be together? of course, loving and caring nature is necessary but i feel that will come mutually once you people will be in a relationship. I think you need to read him carefully when he replies to your questions. it does not mean that he or you are giving an Interview, but still you have to judge. Ask him about the life after marriage, if you would like to work or study further then what his response will be? would he cooperate with you or what? Ask his Idea of an Ideal couple and see how he respond? talk to him about your role after marriage, that how does he see you settling down with his family? He must be sure about these things then you can say he will be independent in his decision after marriage. Ask about his current life and see how comfortable he is answering on this? Ask him how does he see his wife behaving w
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You can judge based on your conversation. You need to ask right questions and unassumingly get answers. You need to be very unassuming and objective and try to get as much truth as possible. Obviously if you ask him whether he is caring, good, etc .....no one is going to say No....you need to find out this over time or put indirect questions.
Again I strongly suggest you (and this applies to guys as well) that you do some background checks and verification about your partner. This may sound very unpleasant, negative and harsh. But its better you take some bold steps now or else you may regret for not having done it later and face life long troubles. Ofcourse there is no 100% guarantee even if you verify but atleast you can take some informed decisions. You can hire an agency for this purpose, and also try to get some contacts from friends or family and common friends or acquaintences to know in and out about the person.