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What is your way to be happy in all your relationships? What when any of them get challenging?

Asked by Anuja, 18 Jan '13 07:47 pm
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A relationship has TWO ENDS, u on one end, and another person on the other end.
You can do something only with ur end. You have very little control over the other end. So I just take care of my end and wont worry about the other. It is good if the other end functions well. But sometimes it doesnt, I accept his/her freedom to be so, and leave it there. I never bend or strain or compromise to alter the other end, for that means I am straying from truth. For me, truth is more important than relationships!
Answered by Shunmugham, 19 Jan '13 10:23 pm

 
  
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I repect all d relation in d way wat d relation is, so everybody is happy wid me
Answered by vedprakash sharma, 18 Jan '13 11:58 pm

 
  
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Be honest
be loyal
be a good listener
and keep patient
Answered by Greasemonkey, 18 Jan '13 10:57 pm

 
  
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We all want loving, attentive, and engaged relationships, and warm bonds will do more than anything to make our home a happy place. But all relationship problems stem from poor communication skills. Occasional conflict is an inevitable part of life. When you make the effort, you can reduce the anger and take a calm look at underlying issues. Realize you are not a victim. It is your choice whether you react and how you react. If you continue to respond in the same way that has brought you pain and unhappiness in the past, you can't expect a different result this time. You can't control anyone else's behaviour, The only one in your charge is you. Don't think that things would be better with someone else. Unless you address them, the same lack of skills that get in the way now will still be there and still cause problems no matter what relationship you are in, Anu :-)
Answered by Dil Se, 18 Jan '13 08:29 pm

 
  
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Me make them feel happy, me sit across and clear my views to make the challenging easy
Answered by PLAY BOY, 18 Jan '13 08:02 pm

 
  
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This age is not of Swami vivekananda or of Jesus Christ....in the process of achieving success in your life till you grow too old, you will find people of different attitude and with various expectations....some will expect respect from you without having any quality, some will discourage you in all your good works. It is also possible, in this age, that even some of your teachers would react very peculiarly to you at your success...YOU HAVE TO FACE THOSE CHALLENGES...THIS IS LIFE...
Answered by Philosopher Speusippus, 18 Jan '13 07:57 pm

 
  
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No expectations is the key. And I will ignore if anything gets challenging.
Answered by kishore malhotra, 18 Jan '13 07:54 pm

 
  
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Make sure nobody disrespects me.
Answered by Avantika, 18 Jan '13 07:49 pm

 
  
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To be real
do not expect
Answered by truth exposed, 18 Jan '13 07:48 pm

 
  
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Everyone likes to dominate . We can win the challenge by being silent also.
Answered by priya rai, 18 Jan '13 07:48 pm

 
  
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