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What is the secret recipe of any successful relationship according to you..?

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Asked by Alaina, 24 Jan '12 12:16 pm
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Mutual trust, understanding and love, mixed together in right proportions !
Answered by nagendra kumar pathak, 06 Feb '12 09:46 pm

 
  
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It is only and only depends upon how much U Respect your Partner and how much Let go his/her mistakes !!!...............But it is next to Impossible..................as We Human being Living with our Ego.......Even Parents have this Ego..............Till Children are Children everything is okey................as soon as Bahu Comes in the Picture Son becomes Partial in their Eyes................This Ego Hurts everybody..............and Women is enemy of Other Women in Relationship..........So Beware......If U Want to be happy with your Relationship U have to Respect Other Women's too !!: p
Answered by Raj, 24 Jan '12 12:41 pm

 
  
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Assalamu Alaikum,
A long article by Ayesha Hamdan
The young and excited bride-and-groom-to-be; ecstatic about the upcoming wedding and marriage and the joy that it will bring. Three to six months later, reality has set in and both spouses realize that marriage is no easy task, but one that takes a great deal of effort and patience. The following are tips for both wives and husbands, to help make the task a little less daunting, and to increase the many rewards that are possible in such a marvelous and complex relationship.

Enter the Marriage with the Right Intention and Renew this Often

Both spouses should enter the marriage with the pure intention of pleasing Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, in order to receive His grace and blessings. The marriage itself then becomes an act of worship and one for which both spouses will be rewarded.


Allah will be pleased with them and this will be the most critical element in ensuring peace, stability and happiness throughout the marita ...more
Answered by azam khan, 24 Jan '12 12:20 pm

 
  
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Agreed with Azam Khan , no more could be asked
Answered by mangochatni, 24 Jan '12 12:25 pm

 
  
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As always, standardizing our approach to interpersonal dynamics is more complicated. But, even here, employing some best practices can go a long way. There are people in your life that you want to, even need to, get along with. Have you ever continually battled with one of these folks, scratched your head and asked, Why cant we just get along?

The answer is you can, but its going to take a different approach. The core problem is that we often cannot trust our gut reaction to be one that will, as Christian states, lubricate or smooth these key relationships. Likely an evolutionary inheritance, our immediate reaction to a request or problem is usually the selfish one. Mind you, I dont mean to use the word in a negative way just a statement of fact we immediately and initially process outside stimuli in light of its effect on us, not the relationship in question or the larger context of that relationship in our lives.

Its clear that unless we train ourselves to slow things down at ...more
Answered by anil garg, 27 Jan '12 11:05 pm

 
  
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Sahi sun buj..means right understinding.
Answered by provu rai, 07 Sep '12 10:26 am

 
  
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Keep the Flames of Individuality Alive

A person who was independent before marriage sucks up into the couple thing and loses his or her individuality. After children are born, the lives of the couples are tied together and the tie grows strong with days. The result is mutual dependence, which is good but not for the health of your individuality. You will feel as if someone is clinging to you constantly. The secret of marriage is that successful couple has the idea of the love between them. But constant dependence can make you feel trapped. Marriage is not always about us. Intelligent couple encourages each other to indulge into their hobbies, to spend time with their individual friends and to spend time for individual purposes. Thus individuality from both sides keeps the marriage alive and fresh.

Get Your Deal Straight in Married Life

Marriage is an institution of society; it is quite dissimilar to living together. It is not better or worse but it is different. In a married ...more
Answered by alok, 01 Apr '12 07:49 pm

 
  
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Apko samjh me nahi aayega
Answered by ambuj kumar, 06 Feb '12 10:57 pm

 
  
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Forgiveness
Answered by PLAY BOY, 03 Feb '12 07:06 pm

 
  
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They are like glasses, be they fully transparent or partially....partially , because at times we need to restrain ourselves to make everything transparent to avoid unnecessary scare upon such glasses.....best of the glasses of having reasonable thickness carry vulnerability ....so as relationships do...but we have to rely ...rather rely endlessly upon its inherant strength....therefore , in my opinion , having endless faith upon each other, taking care all the time that they r nt broken....n ignoring the tiny issues cud result in a successful relationship.....-:))
Answered by bijoy agarwala, 25 Jan '12 09:44 pm

 
  
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