Decisions in love comes from the heart. It needs no time, it comes in a flash. Heart is always right in its realm, the realm of truth. But we live in a world of falsities, where we have to guard ourselves with our mind. Mind knows all the tricks to survive in this world. And mind takes a lot of time to decide with its long drawn logic and reasoning process. Thats why it thinks that decisions from heart, r taken in haste. The consequence u r speaking of, didnt come from love, but from the incompatibility of love in mediocre worldly life !
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Hi, People fall in Love .It is a Natural process. Gradaully they get too emotionally involved . In the Divine pleasure they forget to think about the consequences their love would face. When students fall in love ,hardly they are able to succeed with it .They get mostly discouraged by their parents as it affects their higher studies and mostly they wont be self-dependant to financially plan a life of togetherness.But if they try not be hastly in making decisions and wait until both get settled well ,and have a mature approach ,parents would support them. Incase they are hasty they end up in total mess without being supported by anyone. This make the loers disappointed losing belief in theit lives. Some even end their lives. If the lovers belong to differnt caste or religion ,it becomes a more difficult task for them to convince their parents and community. I have seen some people influenced by their religious Heads ,making the lovers of their children get converted into their religion.