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A certain magic...a spark...which keeps the love brimming in a relationship,is there for good,or comes with an expiry date?

Asked by shintsie, 21 Mar '09 09:24 am
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No ,they never come wid any expiry date...they are d blessings...sometimes each of us might feel likewise....bcoz our thoughts use to wander wid full of freedom and when they get any obstacle, they try to change not only the path but also d destination at times.....the beauty of kashmir valley is not less than d magic of true romance....but I found tears in its eyes...people have forgotten d meaning of smile over there ....they want to leave d valley forever...why? are they not blessed ? bcoz they failed to preserve the fruits of almighty's blessings...definitely d fault of a few..but each of them are suffering...similarly , if we fail to gather the golden moments which sometimes might be so tiny that we have to gather them using microscope..but we need to gather them and also to preserve them in safe vault under lock n key....if we fail to do so...they make us feel that they have expired....but as a matter of fact they dont have the tag of any schedule at all...
Answered by bijoy agarwala, 02 Apr '09 07:04 pm

 
  
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Comes with an expiry date
Answered by Masiha, 21 Mar '09 09:33 am

 
  
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As you think so you become is the unfailing law. This negative thought of yours is bound to recochet to wherever you had sent with a certain force that varies depending on the power of the individual you sent. If it is towards a yogin who is all merciful even to the sender & extinguishes the negatine energy. If it goes to a man with rajasic guna it is bound to return to the sender with more negatively charged energy. A Tamasic dominated individual may get affected & will further deteriorate. But the return energy will certainly not healthy to the sender. The expiry date is normally provided by the manufacturer- in this case the sender. How a good can be expected when the thought itself is suspicious. Let us take a sankalpa not to generate any thoughts- least evena suspicion.
Answered by MajorVLoganathan, 22 Mar '09 02:17 pm

 
  
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Love to be kept burning requires the slow and steady flame of sacrifice. You have to invest first to be able to make steady profits later on. Initially it is hard back breaking work. Later on it is a self generating asset.
Answered by Deepak Joshi, 21 Mar '09 09:28 am

 
  
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Always comes with an expiry date. The magic wears off........ the spark looses its lustre and the love initially brimming, soon hits the bottom....!!!!
Answered by kush mathur, 24 Mar '09 09:55 pm

 
  
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Just at the Amar Jawan Jyoti at the India Gate, Delhi needs to be fed with LPG to keep it burning and ensure its "forever burning" status, so too it is with the spark u are referring to....it needs fuelling in the form of affection, kindness, warm gestures, ready praise, empathy, sacrifice, removal of ego, etc...... If all these are done, subtly, there will be NO expiry date but will be AMAR
Answered by Lion Heart, 24 Mar '09 12:30 pm

 
  
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Spark themselves are trnsien only --if they are used to ignite the force of energy the caqn cause to open the potential . same with love also ,the momentary spark if proprly used can bring lasting relatonship based on love without any expiry date
Answered by HARIJIBAN BANERJEE, 23 Mar '09 10:55 am

 
  
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Shints though,,,,,,, magic always has a tendency to linger on -------sometimes with all brightness and sometimes just as shadow--------------the Spark ---i m afraid to say ---inspite of best efforts ------------do expire ---that's human ------------------spiritually speaking --------some relations do exist beyond human effects--goddliness -----i respect and u know --who are they !!!!!!!!!!!!
Answered by RAJESH, 22 Mar '09 12:27 pm

 
  
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Such spark gives turning points - generally for good.
Answered by sankaran subbiah, 22 Mar '09 11:06 am

 
  
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The magic it is, surely. Two options you asked to take :: Is it there for good or it has mark of expiry date. Very tempting to pick either one of them as both let us inhabit on the stark reality which is a mandatory feature of love in a relationship. This Question is on the public platform and even if it so, I will not hesitate to take the first option because I do believe in positive aspect of the question, as I always carry this angle in my outlook with other social things too. Once you charged with that magical spark, your senses start thinking nothing but goodness in relationship that leads you to see it is brimming even under adverse conditions. Perhaps one`s arrival in other`s life makes lots of difference on several aspects of life, for you were a different person yesterday and total better the next day and for days after. Crisis is not to diminish because relationship does flourish or vanish due to crisis. Sometimes this crisis slowly drains the life out of love relationship; y ...more
Answered by Indra Pawar, 21 Mar '09 02:03 pm

 
  
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