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My wife blackmails me for every small thing by trying to call 911. I am on H1B and i will loose my visa if police books me.Once she called 911 and when police came she hid in a room. I had to tell police that it was by mistake.How can i protect myself from such threats .Should I see a lawyer.

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Asked by n lakshmaiah, 31 May '11 07:03 pm
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I presume you are working within the limits of your Non Immigrant Visa, i.e. within the six year period and being sponsored by your employer. If that is the case then you have nothing to worry about - let her call the Police. If she persists with this nonsense the Police will arrest her for wasting Police time and making false accusations. Call her bluff !!!
Answered by Janis, 31 May '11 08:47 pm

 
  
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This shows that your wife perhaps wants to get rid of you. Why should a wife try to put her husband in trouble unless she does no longer want him!
What a miserable life. It is better you come home and live in peace instead of constantly living such a miserable life.
Answered by Francisco, 31 May '11 07:07 pm

 
  
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Definitely u need help....she is ur wife ??? r u sure??
Answered by gaurav shokeen, 31 May '11 07:06 pm

 
  
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Using 911 for on emergent issues constitutes fraud. Let the cops come and investigate the matter. Once she is caught , she will be thrown in prison. Some where where she belongs. Also she definately needs a psychiatrist emergently....Seriously. she seems very Immature and doesnt realise the consequences of her actions. Also if you dont have kids, dump her and move on. U dont need this nonsense in ur life. If u dont address this now it will get much worse and there is no getting out of this situation. Remember cops have already come to ur place once. If u lose ur mind and so something foolish and they catch you, then all the cop visits to ur house will taken as serious. This is a serious issue my friend. Call a lawyer for proof of harrassement. Looks like ur wife is uneducated and came from Back home.
Answered by sana khan, 09 Sep '11 10:52 pm

 
  
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PLEASE DO , IMMEDIATELY and ALSO SEE A MARRIAGE COUNCILLOR - if she's dialling 911 there would no INFACT THERE IS SOME MAJOR PROBLEM IN YOU MARRIAGE
Source: logic
Answered by simon waaras, 31 May '11 07:26 pm

 
  
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Just tell her 2 go ahead and call 9'11. And when the investigator's do arrive, unless u've been abusing her, the fraud will get GRILLED in the investigation. Also yea, call a lawyer but he would think your a bit silly.
Answered by A Moin, 31 May '11 07:11 pm

 
  
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Consult a psychiatrist
Answered by Dukkar, 31 May '11 07:09 pm

 
  
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Bhai apne wife ke pyar ko samzo.........
wo blackmail karke humesha ke liye aona gulam banake timse pyar karna chahti hai.........
aisi wife shayad hi kisi ko mile...............
Answered by PRAVIN PRAKASH, 31 May '11 07:06 pm

 
  
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Try to marry an Immigrant lady
Answered by yusuf syed, 31 May '11 10:30 pm

 
  
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U shd sek the help of a lawyer...but it will squeez out a fortune from you
Answered by Gaurav vyas, 31 May '11 07:09 pm

 
  
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