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If you want a serious and truthful answer then its the dismal scene of corruption and lacadaisical attitude prevailing all around us in the country.....we could have climbed dizzy heights with the volume of work force and brilliant minds we have., but the same persons who are so diligent abroad and make a name for us., become so casual in the company when they come back to India !
The same persons who profess to be intellectuals change fro the worse and start asking for dowry and other benefits when it comes to their son's marriage !
The same society whch talks about corruption and tries to find remedies, looks away and prefers bridegrooms who are bribe takers and shirkers, because of their extra income ----------
This dissapoints me thoroughly and I keep asking Why?