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One family psychology q. - husband is very calm, educated and cool indian person. Wife too is educated but have a psychological problem where she insults the husband when get hyper. Husband is cool and absorbs lots and successful in carrying family in good pace without hampering love and respect towards his wife. He is optimistic of getting wife's behaviour to be cured. Now after getting their kid, he fears his wife will too insult and slang him before kids. Question is what should husband do if such a situation occurs! Whether to absorb all like previous, to beat wife? or how to tackle the

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Asked by Archana, 11 Jul '11 11:09 pm
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He sounds like a saint! However without knowing the full details it is difficult to give an opinion. What provocation takes place to make her fly off the handle? Does she have a hormone imbalance? She is an educated person so why would her husband even think that she would behave inappropriately in front of her children? It seems like these two people should be talking to each other to find the source of the problem and then resolve, together, to seek the appropriate action. The suggestion that the husband should beat his wife is of course barbaric and has no place in a home with children or any home for that matter. The wife most likely recognises that her behaviour is irrational and is probably upset by it. Cool, calm discussion is the answer and I would suggest a hormone check.
Answered by Janis, 12 Jul '11 09:09 pm

 
  
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My father purchase a cow. she always beat any person. but my father not beat a cow . because he know. it is nature of cow. so always marcy the wife.
Answered by SHAILENDRA JADON, 24 Sep '11 12:10 pm

 
  
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The wife needs thorough counselling
Answered by paresh ghoshal, 12 Jul '11 08:49 pm

 
  
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Psychological problems should treated by an expert- the psychiatrist. husband love and perseverance can augment the treatment of the psychiatrist. (if she is really lucky to have such a fabulous husband!!)
Answered by brajes brajanann, 11 Jul '11 11:19 pm

 
  
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Depends on lots of factors, most importantly thing to do is, Dont make the wife angry.. :-) apart from jokes, they can discus this out, and decide on having arguments in privacy, if she has tourette's there is nothing he or she can do, she should leave the kids when she gets the fits, and they should educate the kids about her condition eventually. if it mere a matter of anger issue, they can see a psychiatrist and work this out, if this becomes an issue they should think of other options. including but not limited to seperation.
Answered by Ashok Maurya, 11 Jul '11 11:17 pm

 
  
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U know that i know same this case even worest than this case n the woman became too bad
i really dont like the man to marry another one but in this case i think it is the best thing to do that, as least he needs a support , but he has to choose a good one
Answered by nahu khan, 11 Jul '11 11:15 pm

 
  
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Both need to be prepared well and understand all the responsibilities before having kids. He should have concentrated on wife's treatment before it.
Answered by Insane Guy, 11 Jul '11 11:13 pm

 
  
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