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I m in love frm last more than 3 yrs.his parents were ready before and my parnts were not earlier.now when my parnts get ready his parnts saying no.boy has stopped talking to me.when i went to his home unhone ghar se nikal diya.ladka bilkul bhi bt nhn kr rha.without telling me reason he has left me.ek bari atleast he shld talk to me.he got engaged somewher too.saath rehne ka plan kiya tha.aisa lg rha hai main pagal ho chuki hai.wht shld i do.kya maine uske ghar jake mistake kiya. i love him a lot. m nt able to forget him. plss tell wht to do?

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Asked by abha, 04 May '08 01:38 pm
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use chor do bhul jao usse acha ladka kahin aap ka intzaar kar raha hoga
Answered by rohit bhatnagar, 04 May '08 01:40 pm

 
  
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Hi Abha!What you can do is, since your parents have reluctantly acceded to your wishes, you can fix up a meeting with his parents. Let both the parties have a frank discussion. Marriage is a conscious decision and not an impulsive decision swayed by an emotional outburst. But, i am afraid to say, the guy doesn't seem to have the guts and courage to show solidarity towards your relationship. If he had conviction in your love, he should have had the patience and made an effort to convince his parents no matter how long it takes. The buy has apparently developed cold feet and has shown the white feather. He seems to be backing out. If he himself doesn't muster up the courage & confidence to win over his parents then what is the point in getting both the families talk?The guy should have broached the topic and dealt with it with grit. The very fact that he has discontinued communication suggests he is not matured enough to take his own decision and is irresolute. He is indecisive. Do ...more
Answered by Archana Murdeshwar, 04 May '08 01:43 pm

 
  
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try to forget him
Answered by rockey, 04 May '08 01:41 pm

 
  
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woh tumko abhi chod ke bhaag gaya toh socho shaadi ke baad bhi aisa kar sakta tha he is not good man yaar agar acha insaan hota tumhe pyar karta toh aisi harkat karne ke baare mein sochta bhi nahi. if he has got engaged then u have not any other option else to forget him and move on. i know it's not easy but it is good for u.
Answered by priyanka, 04 May '08 01:44 pm

 
  
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Don't loose your heart. You should feel lucky that he didn't left you after marriage. Just impagine what would have happened if he left you after marriage? Calm down and stop thinking about him. Also do some meditation to avoid his memories.
Answered by Sandeep Sharma, 04 May '08 01:42 pm

 
  
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no use even if he talks to you, as he cannot live like you lived for last 3 years
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 04 May '08 02:23 pm

 
  
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U have to forget such coward,who cant take decision of his own life,it is good that he bahave in such a manner b4 getting married,if he would have done after getting married,than what would have b ur position ?start ur life fresh,wait and watch,u will find nice boy in future,who will care 4 ur feelings and u,respects u,BEST OF LUCK.
Answered by prahlad desai, 04 May '08 01:44 pm

 
  
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dear abha
we dont know how u matured, but itna to sure hai ki usse aapse ek baar to jaroor baat karni chhahiye thi, jab koi real love karta hai to ye possible nahi hai ki bina bataye koi sath chhod de, jaroor usne fraud kiya hai. otherwise kaise wo tumhe itna tanha chhod dega, tumhara haal tak nahi le paaya.
At present you just realise him ki tum uske bagair bhi rah sakti ho, just give him a simple sms ki "Kya ye jaruri hai ki rishtey puri tarah se khatm kar di jaye we pyar se bhi khatm ho sakte the, chalo jo kiya achha kiya, Jaha bhi rahna jaise bhi rahna sukhi rehna, aaj ke baad tum mujhe bhool jayo, sayed hamara ant aise hi hona tha, bye".
Agar real love hoga to uski tadapti mahabbat use shant nahi rahne degi aur tuse tumhara haal poochne ko majboor karegi' tab sayed wo kuchh bole.
best wishes, bye.
Answered by bidya mishra, 04 May '08 02:23 pm

 
  
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don't you have any self respect at all??..if he disrespected you..you should forget him right away..you don't need him..he is a loser..be strong....
Answered by kunal sharma, 04 May '08 01:46 pm

 
  
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