Using your phone's internet browser
go to:  qna.rediff.com
Click and drag this link to
the Home icon in your browser.
Q.

Marraiges are made in heaven but we have to try and make it WORK here.
Remember the three "F"s in a successful marriage.
"F"riendship
"F"reedom
"F"orgiveness
You are each others "F"riend, give each other "F"reedom and "F"orgive each other at times.
Never expect too much from any relationship if you want it to work. If you give more then you expect you will always be happy.
Your comments please

Asked by inquisitive, 01 Jun '09 05:41 pm
  Invite a friend  |  
  Save  |  
 Earn 10 points for answering
Answer this question  Earn 10 points for answering    
4000 characters remaining  
  
    
Keep me signed inNew User? Sign up

Answers (10)

 
1.

What about the fourth F?
Answered by Parthapratim Chakravorty, 01 Jun '09 05:43 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
2.

Share -----sukh - dukh and be happy even in adversity with cheerful co-operation and attitude .Smililing face are always welcomed by all and make others smile ...God will be happy with us...!
Answered by mpsgahlaut, 01 Jun '09 06:42 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
3.

Yes three secrets must be followed for a successful marriage...
- always think of the best for each other.
-forgive quickly
-never compare your spouse to others.

Neverthless...marriage resembles a pair of shears so joined together that they cannot be seperated; often moving in opposite directions, yet always punishing anyone who comes between them !!
Answered by Mrinalendra Banerjee, 01 Jun '09 06:31 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
4.

Nicely said . There are 10 golden rules to make it work like heaven here ..

Don\'t Be Selfish - Yes, you need to take care of yourself in order to be there for others, but when you put your needs always ahead of everyone else\'s you are going to create conflict

Don\'t Be a Martyr - Again, you need to take care of your family, but being the one who always gives will begin to build internal resentments and you may begin to withhold a portion of yourself consciously or unconsciously

Don\'t Fail to Show Appreciation - Letting your spouse know you love them is important, it\'s important to say thank you and demonstrate your love and affection by treating them well

Don\'t Overdo the Pampering - Seriously, that sounds like weird advice, but if you are constantly pampering your spouse, they will develop an expectation for that treatment and if you fail to deliver for whatever reason - their heightened expectations can lead to disappointments and conflict

Don\'t Be too Indepe ...more
Answered by PARTHA PATHAK, 01 Jun '09 05:51 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
5.

Yes expactation has always lead to problems in relationship. But having relationship without expactations is impossible. So the trick lies in decision How much to expect and when to expect. And How to handle un fulfilled expactations.
Answered by Tushar Kher, 01 Jun '09 05:49 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
6.

Marriages are made in heaven and heaven is made by marriage if there is only pove ,nothing else
Answered by shashank sharma, 01 Jun '09 05:46 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
7.

Marriages are not made in heaven, had it been so, cases of separations,divorces would not have existed. The Fs you mentioned not only apply to marriage but all human relations.
Answered by shashi, 01 Jun '09 05:46 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
8.

100% true
Answered by bhanwar bothra, 01 Jun '09 05:44 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
9.

Yes U R right. In my opnion if U R doing something for someone dont execpt in return and always try to do upto the extent possible
Answered by Sunil Kumar, 01 Jun '09 05:43 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (1)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
10.

Aapka baat koun sunta he ji. agar aap ka baat koe samaj pata to hamra eek duty se to rahat milta.
Answered by police, 01 Jun '09 05:46 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received

Ask a Question

Get answers from the community

600 characters remaining

Related Answer

Q.
A

First let me say the election was very much about race. It was also about gender. This was about breaking away from the old business as usual politics..more

Answered by Mickey