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My husband bought a house on loan. all was fine, but our marriage life is upset and i suspect him of affair. i got hurt by his inconsiderate behaviour. now he cries foul i am having problesms paying the instalments for the loan. when i asked him why he didnot think about the loan before. he says now the interest rate has increased. he is very shady in his acts. he keeps his mobile to himself. does not talk out talk out things. when confronted he stops all communuication. what do say is the matter with him

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Asked by : cimran |  07 Nov 09:30 am

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Dont just suspect as some times they r false too . so confirm it first

Says krish 07 Nov 10:37 am

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First of all have a careful handling with him to probe into his acts of commissions and omissions further before arriving at your own conclusions of accusations...and...once you get confirmed, try through his parents if not yours...!

Says Dil Se 07 Nov 09:46 am

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Have patience, It will solve most of the problems. When you are upset you will make a lot of blunder, which you will regret later. Contact other wise inflluential people and discuss your problem. Don't do anything in haste

Says Reshma 07 Nov 09:42 am

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This suspect only ruins one's life.......be friendly with him, he must be in a finacial crunch....try to understand the fact before blamming to him......think for a moment..........you can do/change a lot.......put your effort and get the solution.....never cosult to any one.....you are the best judge......

Says pradeep mishra 07 Nov 09:42 am

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Please consult with the professional Lawyer

Says gouri ghosh 07 Nov 09:35 am

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