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I m very much frustated with the indian culture and the way indian people lives , there is lot of voilence in india and people behave as they want and due to that i have developed depression i dont think i fit in political , social ,cultural or religious frame in which india is made i think muslim countries are much better .i dont know how to leave india and get nationality of other country?

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Asked by himanshu arora, 28 May '10 09:16 pm
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It is said that sheep and goat always presume that grass is greener in far away place but when they reach there, grass in the original place looks greener from the far away place. Your situation can become similar.
Nowadays, there is almost no place without some sort of trouble. It is how we adjust to the situation rathan than finding faults with the prevailing circumstances. If you go our of India, I am sure you will like to come back to India at the earliest. Be happy and make the most of our beautiful country with abundant resources and colourful life of people of different faiths, regions, castes and communities.
Answered by Francisco, 28 May '10 09:22 pm

 
  
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Muslim countries are much better only because Indians are toiling there day and night, you are the first India to say you are frustated with the Indian way of life. let me tell you indian(Hindu) way of life is more scientific and cultured then any life that you think as superior including the life in Arab countries
Answered by SREENIVAS, 28 May '10 09:27 pm

 
  
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Lets see how they are better:
Politics- NO Democracy or Judiciary with rule of law or modern trial or freedom of expression.
Social- A rigid mode of life according a scripture written 1500 yrs back and its interpretation by priesthood. No reforms, even thought of change is blasphemy!
Culture- Everything is dictated to u. What to believe,what not to believe, what and when to eat, what not to eat, drink, wear, pray, beard or no beard, circumcised or uncircumcised, the second class citizenship of women.... the list is long.
By the way, Pakistan is the closest one, the present conditions there are far better than India, as well !
Answered by Shunmugham, 29 May '10 08:38 pm

 
  
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Contact Deobandis for help or go to Pakisthan.In todays context Pakisthan is more Islamic than Saudi Arabia.It has more ONENESS in killing.
Answered by Subhas Mitra, 29 May '10 09:43 am

 
  
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Live anywhere but Worship one true God and follow his commandments .
Answered by khabardar, 28 May '10 11:06 pm

 
  
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I actually LEFT a comfortable life in US to come and live out here and the doctors said I was not clinically insane.

Yaar there is something called HOPE.

I have hope that 1 of these days we will have someone like Chairman Mao or a Fidel Castro or a Nethaji Bose who would set things correct for our countrymen and lead us to achieve great heights.

If u find Indian culture maddening, I suggest u retire to an Indian village whre roads are less. In agrarian locales, u find broad mind like u can't find anywhere else in the world but in urban India , u find narrow minded values, morals etc., more so than anywhere else in the world.

India is strange in sense it proved what Pol Pot theorized but hell, let's learn to live and adapt and hope 4 a better tomorrow. If noone hopes 4 a better tomorrow, that better tomorrow will NEVER happen.
Answered by A Moin, 28 May '10 09:26 pm

 
  
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You are not aware of Indian culture just try to get rid of that.......adopt the system what ever fits to your choice.......never criticise to others.......
Answered by pradeep mishra, 28 May '10 09:20 pm

 
  
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Go to UAE. Indian people have respect in those countries. Indian culture and all that is a stupid propoganda to prove we are superior. Greed is our main culture. Children do not leave parents when property interests are there. Otherwise, it is same like western world. Go outside and progress. Come back when you will lot of money. In India, money is only important.
Answered by atul joshi, 29 May '10 10:49 am

 
  
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Yes indian culture is outdated, primitive and people just know to fight instead of solving their problems. anyone will get frustrated here, mentality of indians needs too change. if you want to immigrate you must consult people, ask them, racism is a big problem nowadays, like in australia,mostly white countries.Go to a professional for consultation
Answered by kamini joshi, 29 May '10 10:06 am

 
  
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R u not Indian. If u r not aware of your culture it is better to remain a frustrated animal. Try to undo the wrong instead of criticising ur own self. U must be proud of secularist character. U r free to say so only here in India. U should respect other religions instead of having a bigotted view. The people who criticise their own people/country and instead of trying to solve the problems or at least making an attempt, no matters it may be subdued/feeble, for change need not live in the country and go to a country where they r respected. Remember if u r not welcome in ur own house u will be kicked away from any host's home. Go to Punjab, u will find a Kabootarbaaj. I dont say u live in past glory, but try to change what is in ur hands, oh- sorry- u r going to leave India. Wish u best of luck. Keep in touch.
Answered by BHARAT, 28 May '10 09:34 pm

 
  
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