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Me and my boss both are married and having kids. we chatted a lot on net. we never met outside office. suddenly one day he told me that we are just friends. i tried a lot to be just friend with him but cant control my feelings for him. now he stopped chatting with me. now what do i want i dont know but i have a strong feelings for him.

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Asked by kareena, 26 Nov '12 09:56 pm
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Hey Stupid...wake up. I am all for a fling. We like that but anything further is an obsession. BACK OFF.....AND PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR FAMILY.
Answered by Mogumbo Returns, 26 Nov '12 09:59 pm

 
  
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Maybe, you got it all wrong! Maybe, he was just being friendly or maybe, he was in love with you once but, now he can no longer take it for some reason, either due to guilt or he is scared of his wife or his wife knew about it and she has threatened or warn or gave him another chance. Point is, he is not yours if he does not want to be. He is a married person with kids and so are you! It is good he is saving his family life and his kids' life as well. You should also be thinking of the same. It is more satisfying than repenting for destroying a happy family life for some moments of joy and pleasure for yourself because in the long run, if this union had happened, both of the families life would have devastated with discontent and mental trauma. Think about your family, their welfare.... Regardless of being a man or a woman, the sacrifice for your family that needs and supports you, is always the right thing to do! Best of luck! :)
Answered by Chocklate, 26 Nov '12 10:02 pm

 
  
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Convince him to sleep with you.
Answered by samiran panda, 27 Nov '12 02:46 pm

 
  
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Hota hai, hota hai
Answered by robinson, 27 Nov '12 02:02 pm

 
  
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Affair with married man is alwalys risky.

U chat with me
Answered by single dude, 27 Nov '12 08:19 am

 
  
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Understandable
try to be realistic
Answered by anil garg, 26 Nov '12 11:08 pm

 
  
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Stop it.
Answered by Nokister, 26 Nov '12 10:28 pm

 
  
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Imagine your husband is doing the same thing with another girl.. how will you react if and when you come to know? Come out from fantacy.. and take care of your family and learn loving them to receive love and affection.
Answered by vasudevan surendran, 26 Nov '12 10:02 pm

 
  
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