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Love has degraded to such a cheap level that,,Most of us wont make an effort to save the relationship and bring that charm back,,Instead we will put in extra effort to seek revenge and actually will feel more pain if we see the other one,,,,Moving on and trying to be happy....And here I mean almost all the relationships,,not juz the romantic ones..!!..(Spare parents love.Its a device Blessing of God for all living beings..)
Plz comment on this sort of behavior..!!

Tags: love, relationships, god
Asked by Rohit Soni, 30 Mar '13 08:18 pm
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What do mean by ....degraded to such a cheap level? As if earlier it was not so, but now it has fallen?
That perception is not true. Love has always been thus. Love is NOT something everybody can pursue deep. Majority of the humanity live and die without ever tasting true love!
This is not with reason. Love urges u to change.... u have to allow transformation in you in order to move up in love. This is something most people are afraid of... it is frightening to those who fear change. Then love also demands a high level of alertness/awareness, because love can get easily contaminated by certain poisons like envy, ego, possessiveness, fear of losing etc. U have to be on guard.
So on the whole, love takes the quality of a spiritual journey which very few can handle!
Answered by Shunmugham, 31 Mar '13 08:47 pm

 
  
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Love is not degrading at all but human beings make it so...the true meaning of love has lost, it is mostly used for self-benefit...you are right, there is no effort made to save a relationship, instead it is easy to hurt....one seems to always try to find a greener pasture of meaningless love forgetting the promises made
Answered by Annes, 01 Apr '13 01:00 pm

 
  
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Its not love or hate which has changed ..its human values which have degraded
Answered by Quest, 31 Mar '13 10:15 am

 
  
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If any one loves their fathers, their sons, their brothers, their wives, their kindred, the wealth that they have gained, the commerce in which they fear a decline, and the dwellings in which they have delighted themselves more than than GOD and His Messenger, THEN WAIT for the decision of God for GOD DOES NOT LOVE the rebellious and disobedient
if GOD FORSAKES NONE CAN HELP
IF GOD HELPS NONE CAN FORSAKE
IF WE LOVE ALLAH ,THEN ALLAH will guide us to straight path , give us faith , respect honor in this world as well as in the hereafter
if the cause of love is Allah then well and Fine
and if cause of breakdown is Allah ,then also well and fine .
Answered by truth exposed, 30 Mar '13 08:31 pm

 
  
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It is surley not a good thing that is happening, but then is the reason for it is greed
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 30 Mar '13 08:19 pm

 
  
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Yes,we are responsible for degrading love
Answered by anil garg, 03 Apr '13 10:26 pm

 
  
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Love never ends ends really is relation. but the sweet dream that never ends.
Answered by Joy Chatterjee, 01 Apr '13 05:46 pm

 
  
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