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V may hve come a long way 4rm arranged marriages 2 live-in relationships, but d glass-ceiling, wen it comes 2 a younger man dating an older woman, remains 2 b busted in many circles.While an older man dating a younger woman has traditionally been accorded trophy status, d reverse continues to attract a sarcasm n ridicule more often than not. Dat apart d unusual relationship ratio may throw up novel situations 2 deal with n some out of d box thinking to ensure its success. How do you take this aspect?? Comment??

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Asked by cyrus irani, 08 Feb '08 12:11 pm
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I take this aspect in two ways,firstly its societal,secondly its psychological.Societal in the sense,whatever Men do its pardonnable while whatever a women does is not right,is non ethical.previously women had to go after the husbands demise,while the man lived even after his wife's demise and remarried someone of nearly half his age.
secondly i see it more of a psychological problem,its like girls who never got fatherly love always go for elderly men,they try to search security and emotional support in the older men while Boys who were too attached to their mom's or were pampered by their mothers always go for elderly women as they feel secured and emotionally supported in their company.A lady who is motherly has more possiblity of attracting men younger to her age.I take this aspect as someones personal aspect,its their outlook towards their lives,if they are happy ,good ,if they aint happy ,it was their desicion!!!
Answered by sylvia rajendra francis, 08 Feb '08 02:13 pm

 
  
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I read somewhere dat d young generation is after sex, gals n money. Now d condition is become more serious, youngsters r ready to accept d culture like bf/ gf , live- in relationship, which wud surely harm their future. Remember, Bipasha n Ronaldo, here she is elder to ronaldo by 10 yrs.,,but how shamelessly they show their love in party. I don't thk. such type of relation will get success n our Indian culture will never support this kind of relations.
Answered by sumati gayki, 08 Feb '08 12:38 pm

 
  
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To me, everything is changing now...ppl are setting their mind as per their own will...now not only live in relationship even gay relationships or homosexual are becoming common and accepted by young generation..personal realtionships have lost their charm and importance...everybody is after sex, variety, lust...and money
Answered by Rukhsana.Siddiqui, 08 Feb '08 12:16 pm

 
  
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Its a male dominated world, when a young man gets into relationship with an older women its considered he is less of a macho, unable to earn enough to afford a young lady, and lacks the sense of beauty. Can imagine kissing or caressing a old wrinkled lady, the age of your aunty or granny.
Answered by manoj thakur, 08 Feb '08 12:19 pm

 
  
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