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I am debasish guha.
I have problem facing during my Intercourse. I feel no excitement,
& if it is somehow managed, It dont sustain for long time . during my intercourse,& during specific moment
my erection comes down abnormally,
leaving my parten unsatisfied.& also I
feel week phisically, mentally. Some thinkings for my future appear before my eyes during this time. I am Diploma In mechanical Engineer. & also work in Pvt concern with moderate salary. I want to improve the situation & my wife want to be a mother. Pl suggest some remedies

Asked by debasish guha, 09 Jan '09 11:53 am
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Consult a sexologist
Answered by Alok Pande, 09 Jan '09 12:20 pm

 
  
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Consult with a sexologist, How old both of you? Are you facing any blood pressure or sugar problem, Please check it up and hope you will overcome, otherwise I can advise you further, don't hesitate to write me.
Answered by SANAT DEY, 09 Jan '09 01:33 pm

 
  
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Your information is inadequate -
1- you may consult- andrologist,qualified sexologist,urologist
2- state your physical condition,medical condition(diabetese , BP and obesity reduces libido which is desire to sex, even depression and stress is another responsible factor)
3 what is your age and daily routene - be very clear are you following standard routene , physically active , taking proper diet etc...
4- don`t carry child hood myths - masturbated massively in school college days -its never problem don`t carry in your mind
5-don`t think about time of ejactulation while having sex or in forplay only enjoy , you can take break or can apply start stop and squeze technique to increase time , for hard ness you must follow excercise which strenghten your pelvic floor muscle and thigh muscles these are basically cardio protective excercise .
, try to play light instumental music during the course of sex which will help you to get into
Answered by upman singh, 09 Jan '09 08:40 pm

 
  
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Distraction from a specific action always leads to undesirable results. Think about work when you are working and think about Love/Sex while in Love making and get fully involved in that act, don't be just an Actor. Develop Good healthy Habits and discuss about wants/desires of your partner openly and clear the atmosphere well before. Think positively and do some respiration control excercises like Pranayam to develop control over body and Mind. Dont leave your pre-occupation / inhibition take over you. If you are able to Eject, then no need to worry abou making your partner a Mother; but Get Medical advice and tests carried out which will help you to know about How productive you are.
Answered by Rudrappa, 09 Jan '09 01:44 pm

 
  
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The best way is to consult a sexologist. Your matter seems to be an out come of some mental block. In that case both of you have to go for a counselling.
Answered by thangiah kannan, 09 Jan '09 09:09 pm

 
  
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Consult a sexologist

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Answered by hemant jain, 09 Jan '09 06:50 pm

 
  
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Debasish excitement will come dont worry ,first i would suggest that dont take tension about this matter,its happend for some time extent,so if u r are feeling
week, i suggest u one solution for that buy one kg of pure honey, take one 1kg of
dry dates good quality,remove the seeds of dry dates,dip it into one 1kg of honey for at least 20 days.After 20 days take one spoon every day & night with one glass of milk. try this by the grace of god ,u will achieve u r self confidence & u r Gol.
Answered by mohammed ashraf, 09 Jan '09 03:57 pm

 
  
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