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Kya aajkal ke zamane me bhi sirf gharwaalon ki khushi key liye aisi ladki/ladke sey shadi karni chahiye jisey aapka dil na chahta ho? aisi shadi ka bhavishya kya hoga?

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Asked by Avantika, 01 Mar 10:32 pm
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Agar ladka khud kamaata ho to fir to koi jhijhak nahi.. magar jab ladka parents par hi nirbhar rahta hai, tab usey unki baat manani padti hai.. This thing is related with his own independence.
Answered by subhash, 02 Mar 09:38 pm

 
  
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If you are facing circumstances where you are getting married against your will then speak up. The parents have no right to force their daughter or son to marry 'someone' [s]he does not want. Forced marriage occurs when a girl or a boy is coerced by the family to marry, using threats, emotional blackmail, fraud, and even bribes. Some parents use the tactic of not speaking to a son / daughter for months at a time to convince them to get married to the person of their choice. They sometimes think that being parents gives them rights. But marring 'someone' against your like, certainly spoils your future as the other person too, for marrying you. Don't ruin your life or your future. However, do not reject the concept of marriage to a prospect introduced by your parents or your family just because you don't want an arranged marriage. [S]he may turn out to be your soul-mate, Avantika....!
Answered by Dil Se, 02 Mar 10:58 am

 
  
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Bhavishya acha hota hai.
Kuch dino mai sab thik lagta hai...wahi ladki bahut achhi lagne lagti hai....
Answered by gulab khan, 01 Mar 11:04 pm

 
  
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There is difference in vision- between one who watches from the top of Kutab Minar and another who watches from the ground.

The first one is parents and elderly people in family and the second one is you/he/she/{me(?)} who is going to be married :-)
Answered by amitava duttamajumdar, 01 Mar 10:37 pm

 
  
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Well aisi shadi ka koi bhavishya ho na ho uss bhavishya mein uski khushi bilkul nahi hogi jismein uska ka man na ho.........you know yaar insaanonki ek fidrat hoti hai jo unhe pasand hai vo usmein hi khush rehtein hain aur usmein vo kuch naya poorthila,aur kuch aisa karenge jisse ve bhi khush ho aur sab bhi in longer run.....but jab koi cheez ya vishaya kisi ke man ke bina karnekeliye majboor kiya jaye ya hojaye vo kabhi bhi fruitull deed nahi hoga and that's for sure...........!
Answered by Bhuvana, 01 Mar 10:36 pm

 
  
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Ghar walon ki marzi se to karni hi chahiye....duniya badal rahi hai....par maa baap se bachcho ka reationship thodi na badal raha hai...maa baap ka nazariya zarur badal raha hai...aur adhiktar maa baap....apne bachcho ki pasand ke anusaar hi shaadi karwane lage hai....
Source: bhavishya kisne dekha hai...
Answered by sanjay sharma, 01 Mar 10:36 pm

 
  
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Jahan Khusi Ke Liye Khushi se Shadi Kiya Jaaye
Waha Khushi Hi Milti Hai Dear
Bus Soch Ko Badane Ki Jarurat Hoti Hai
Hum Ensaan Hain ,,,,,, Isliye Hume Dusaron Ki Khusi Mein Apni Khushi Talash Leni Chahiye
Usi Se Reall Khushi Milti Hai :-)))
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Source: Bhawishya Uzzawal Hi Hoga Yadi Soch Sahi Hai To :-)
Answered by Nagendrakumardwivedi, 01 Mar 10:35 pm

 
  
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