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Except for the family system , which is need of we indians as our government does not provide financial assistance to every one, which actually forces us to have a family system. Child raising is still considered an obligation on kids and the kids are viewed as 'budhape ka sahara'
i dont think we are any better than the western world.
As we are afraid to accept our realities, we falsely prefer to live for the sake of society and boast about our values which makes us a lot of hypocrites.