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In an indian marriage ,when the marriage is taken place in front of god, infront of witness, & above i think its covenant ,a beutiful bondage between two people, then why do marriages breakup, whum should the bal;me go to ultamately, what causes it to break, what are the circumstances or rather what is the fact that breaks up realation is it involvement of people or what plz share ur opinion...

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Christopher

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Asked by Mark Banderas, 22 Mar '07 05:41 pm
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When two people have sex, oxytocin is released, which helps bond the relationship. The feelings of passionate love, however, do lose their strength over time. The chemicals responsible for "that lovin' feeling" (adrenaline, dopamine, norepinephrine, phenylethylamine, etc.) dwindle.
Suddenly your lover has faults.
Why has he or she changed, you may wonder. Actually, your partner probably hasn't changed at all; it's just that you're now able to see him or her rationally, rather than through the blinding hormones of infatuation and passionate love. At this stage, the relationship is either strong enough to endure, or the relationship ends.
If the relationship can advance, then other chemicals kick in. Endorphins, for example, are still providing a sense of well-being and security. Additionally, oxytocin is still released when you're having sex, producing feelings of satisfaction and attachment. Vasopressin also continues to play a role in attachment.
i.e. if due to some dis-satisfa ...more
Answered by PANIWALA A, 22 Mar '07 06:21 pm

 
  
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It is something we can only ponder
not having any proper reasons
or steps to avoid break of marriages
Answered by anil garg, 20 Mar '10 11:19 pm

 
  
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I think relationship of marriage needs commitment.....no doubt there r difference between life-partners with regard to their interest, likings, dislikings, ways of communication & so many other things......but there is a need of adjustment & compromise.....need to understand each other as they r & a lit-bit changes in ur behaviour & ur spouse's behaviour can help u..........so i think lack of understanding,compromise is the reason 4 break-ups in most of cases.....
Answered by raman dhadiala, 22 Mar '07 05:57 pm

 
  
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Hey dear marrage is way of meet two person with each other with feeling hearts everything but if marrages brekup that time we peoples are responcible for that we always blaim our partner but wht abt ourself we r not think that i m responcible that we always blaim others we r not trying to solve the problems miss understanding ha but if anybody just tell us against our partner we r agree that things its.thats wrong.
Answered by snehal patil, 22 Mar '07 05:53 pm

 
  
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