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Hiiii
i am little bit sad actally a lot....
i love my bf a lot bt he never get time to even to meet me.. even he doesnt told abt our affair to his family what to do?

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Asked by sejal, 14 May '11 08:04 pm
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I think your question is incomplete. So, i have the following questions for you.

a) Is he working or studying?
b) what is it that is bugging him so much that he is not even able to find time to meet you?
c) is he calling you and speaking to you over the phone atleast?

i would assume that his family is very conservative & that's why he might be hesitating to disclose this information. on the contrary, did you ever ask him as to why he is not able to tell about the relationship at home?

Suggestion - If you both are pretty serious of this relationship & even planning to get married in the near future, i have only some advice for you...read on...

Times have changed......why is that you want the boy to make a formal introduction to his family about you. Why is that you don't plan to meet outside the house say at the beach, restaurant or atleast a park were you can have an informat chat and get introduced to his parents. Portray your natural self & be very confident of what ...more
Answered by vinodh vijayaraghavan, 14 May '11 09:41 pm

 
  
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Try to told directly, he has to convince his parents.
Answered by RAMESH V, 14 May '11 08:42 pm

 
  
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A love with expectation brings pain, in your case you are loving with some expectation. unless you don't expect you cannot solve the problem, becoz its very very difficult to full fill each others expectation.
Answered by Nags, 14 May '11 08:14 pm

 
  
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Hi sejal, nice name.
Give him a last chance and if he don't give u time then he don't deserves u, leave him.
Answered by Ankita Ahirwar, 14 May '11 08:14 pm

 
  
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Leave him and find someone who treats you with respect.
Answered by Avantika, 14 May '11 08:06 pm

 
  
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