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Jeevan ke safar mein rahi
Milte hain bhichar jaane ko
Aur de jaate hain yaadein
Tanhaayi mein tadpaane ko

How do you deal with the situation when something like this happens to you?

Asked by Mitali Choudhury, 12 Apr '09 06:23 pm
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I see sumitha has already provided a sweet answer to this. I have nothing more to add.
Answered by Jack Johnson, 13 Apr '09 05:23 pm

 
  
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I just rewind my past days and enjoy life spent with the departed one .What else a human being can do dear.
Answered by ANURADHA PATHAKJ, 13 Apr '09 06:41 pm

 
  
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'... jo inki nazar se khele ...... dukh payee musibat jhele ... ' kabhi begane ko bhi apna ke dekho ... i wud better take the challenge !
Answered by Praveen Kapur, 13 Apr '09 01:44 am

 
  
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The moment we come to this world, there is always the chance parting with some one. As we grow up, we meet many a people, go on to establish relationships of one order or other with them. Some may last a short while, some a little longer & some till we are afflicted with loss of memory. In every relationship, there is always a binding factor of some order or other w/o which no relationship can sustain with any sense of purpose.

Like Darwins theory of evolution of mankind, there is a similarity here in the evolution of a relationship. There is lot of choosing, cutting, chopping, filtering before we settle on those with whom we establish that relationship. But then relationships by itself are subject to the whims of circumstances however much one may take guard against that. The unseen, the unexpected lingers around in the corner. One should be able to acknowledge the possibility of it happening, the circumstances alone differing for whatever reasons it may be, by a death natural or ...more
Answered by Omega, 14 Apr '09 05:24 pm

 
  
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I always take life in the policy of Jo hota hein achche ke liye hota hein , jo hoga achcha hi hoga , aur jo horaha hein achche ke liye hi ho raha hein . so just enjoy life with whatever god is gifting life with every second of happiness , minutes of joy and hours of togetherness , but at same time we should deal with life practically also.
Answered by kishoranandvittalmangalore, 13 Apr '09 05:59 pm

 
  
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Try not to be emotional but to be PRACTICAL when u hv to face such a situation
Answered by vidhi, 13 Apr '09 05:05 pm

 
  
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Raho bindaaz !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! karo aise logon ko nazarandaz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Answered by ravi, 13 Apr '09 04:34 pm

 
  
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Badi azeeb situation hoty hai g.
Answered by ankit shivam, 13 Apr '09 04:33 pm

 
  
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Completely fail to deal with such situation....remembering a beautiful song..."Lo aa gayee unki yaad , woh nahi aaye.....Rauti hai aaj hum par, tanhaiyan hamari......dil unko dhundta hai, gam ka sringar karke.....badhte hi jaa rahe hai, mayusiyon ke saaye...
Lo aa gayee unki yaad...woh...nahi aaye..."
Answered by bijoy agarwala, 13 Apr '09 12:44 am

 
  
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Parting is such a sweet sorrow......the memories are sweet and the same memories make us sad too because it makes one think of "if only's" and "what if's" abt the events leading up to the break up.

Only time can help reduce the pain....but in the meanwhile one can take the following steps either to get back together or to put a closure to the relationship.....

# If the other person has called it quits...then u can ask them the reasons...if the reasons are not forthcoming then it is likely that salvaging this friendship is not as imp. to them
# Do not mope..believe that there is no one worth crying over...concentrate on the ppl you have around you rather than the one that has left you.
# Dont let bitterness or feelings of negativity overwhelm you..and dont discuss the reasons for break up with anyone and everyone even if the other person blames you....after all u BE a bettter friend although it may be hard
# Accept the truth that this relationship has gone sour and move on wi ...more
Answered by sumitha, 12 Apr '09 09:57 pm

 
  
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