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Trouble is part of your life...if you dont share it, you dont give the person, who loves you, a chance to love you enough....is it true, your views please...?

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Asked by Dil Se, 04 Aug '10 08:33 pm
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Mr. Dil Se, nice question indeed. But we are more used to listen to such words in films and sometimes in sobbing stories in literature. The urge to know more about the so called beloved is more out of curiosity and check how far that is going to affect their relation. They are also concerned, whether any role is expected from them which they may not be willing to do in normal circumstances or becoming an embarrassment or trouble for them also. When you know the ex is troubling, what is your feeling. Don't you doubt the beloved also? With love, there is essentially other factors correlated, that are called jealousy, possessiveness (servility), doubtfulness etc etc. I don't believe love is all divine. If you love, actually you monopolize the person in every way. If there is little disturbance, you don't tolerate it. The interest to know more about the trouble is actually taking stock of situation for further action to make it a smooth trouble free monopoly.
Answered by soumyen sarkar, 05 Aug '10 09:01 am

 
  
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Yes, in love u share everything. As a matter of fact, that sharing isnt a deliberate act for lovers, but a natural happening. And each one FEELS the others problem !
Answered by Shunmugham, 05 Aug '10 08:28 pm

 
  
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Not agreed dil,,,,,,,,!!
according to this Q,,,it seems putting troubles on our beloved,,,,,,yes agreed sharing is the part of love,,,,,,but sharing beloved troubles dear,,,,not putting our troubles on him/her,,,,,,it shows dat we need some justification regarding our love,,,,,,,we want to know the depth of his/her love,,,,,,,,
i dnt believe n dat,,,,,,, better to give our all support,,,love,,,,,care,,,,,affection,,,,,instead of demanding from him/her,,,,,,,,love is not an exam dear,,,to clear it for a degree,,,,,,,,
Answered by humtum, 05 Aug '10 05:59 pm

 
  
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Don't Agree. trouble is never a part of life once you know how to handle it and keep it away when it comes ! You don't have to share it and give it to the person who loves you, rather you should avoid sharing any trouble with him and give him happiness in lieu. He will love you enough and more due to this act of yours. Fight with troubles yourself, don't involve your lover or beloved in it !
Answered by nkpathak, 05 Aug '10 12:51 pm

 
  
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Odra naayai kanda, thuraththira naai vidaathu! So similarly the trouble, if one succums to it, it will increase manifold! Also don't share trouble with loved ones! It is a negative energy - should be curbed by one who encounters it! Once it is beyond one, the loved ones will come for help - but of our own we should not share it. It is a cowardly act. Instead, " WHEN TROUBLE, TROUBLES YOU, TROUBLE, THE TROUBLES IN SUCH A WAY THAT NO TROUBLE IS FREE TOTROUBLE YOU."
Answered by MajorVLoganathan, 05 Aug '10 09:55 am

 
  
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Dil, When people are in love they need not share every part of their life with Somone they love .But that does not mean you dont give the person a chance to love you enough.A true lover does not love as what part you share with him/her . He/she loves with her innocence, sincerity ,ability ,wisdom and what his/her mind thinks and wish for .Eve nif you share the whole life, the lover may not love you enough. He/she need to have a nice, lovable ,true Heart for it ....!!!
Answered by Rachana, 04 Aug '10 11:08 pm

 
  
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Yes
we need to share almost everything
trouble,pain,pleasure
Answered by anil garg, 04 Aug '10 08:40 pm

 
  
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Absolutely right ,,love means caring and sharing too ..if one has no faith or trust in one's beloved then it is not a win win situation ,,there should be all intensitity of feeling for each other with the core of heart ,,,so one should have faith in one's beloved ,,it will bring them closer ,,too ..it is effective communation ------necessary to keep the relationship strong to stronger ,,
Answered by lolita mansfield, 04 Aug '10 08:40 pm

 
  
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Yes it is absolutely right
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 04 Aug '10 08:33 pm

 
  
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We need to share almost everything trouble,pain,pleasure .
Answered by sumati gayki, 02 Jan '11 02:35 pm

 
  
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