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In online friendship you dnt know each other but you like his/her way of talking , comments etc and have secret crush ..but when they truth come our that he/she is 15-16 years elder then you wht to do?

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Asked by Anchal Singh, 21 May '12 10:39 pm
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Dear Anchal, Hi, Friendship is different from romantic feelings...Never judge a book by its cover...I hope U know this saying so always before falling in love just think about his/her character.....no problem if he/she is elder to you, here the question is of Love & Affection and a respect that person carries for you or whoever he/she is...In abroad dont forget where I am in UK they dont see age and fall in love, they see the person's character and the love and affection they fall far...there are so many celebrities in our Bollywood who are younger or older to one another....like sachin and his wife, Arjun Rampal & Meher Jessia and another celebrity Murdoch...his wife he is so older to his wife, & also see France President and his wife...so its all khel of love....where the heart counts and not the age...

All the best

Regards

Farhaan
Answered by Farhaan, 22 May '12 09:43 am

 
  
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Well in our childhood, we all were fascinated by our teachers. Did it matter? I don't know, whether you call this fascination as secret crush.
There is nothing you need to do. Just keep on admiring. After all, you admire a pop star, but do you get involved romantically?? No.
That's it. Continue with what you are with a reality, without dreaming of any romantic outcome of the relationship. Always remember that secret moves in friendships to turn it into romance result in ugly turn of events.
Answered by manish varma, 22 May '12 06:40 am

 
  
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Curse your stars, and the day you met that person and started to like him/her ;-))
well, on a serious note, having a crush is alright, but one should not make any further commitments without meeting or knowing the person in real, to avoid any such heart breaks and situations.
Answered by Diya, 21 May '12 10:40 pm

 
  
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Take your leave
Answered by anil garg, 23 May '12 12:13 am

 
  
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Crush???? well its mt possible...................its just that we think...............we think and then start making us feel that u have a crush
Answered by manjiri lonpande, 22 May '12 09:56 am

 
  
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Be frnd..and frnd ship is not age biased
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Answered by Alka Khurana, 22 May '12 09:47 am

 
  
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Thats why never take virtual friendships seriously till the time you have met him/her becauze even a boy can turn out to be a girl.
Answered by Manoj Adwani, 21 May '12 10:44 pm

 
  
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In healthy relationship age not matters....since we are attracted by his/her mental maturity....way of expression...I will continue ...
Answered by Anil khare, 21 May '12 10:42 pm

 
  
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