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If Love is unconditional why they fight after marriage ?

Tags: love, relationships, astrology
Asked by anantharaman, 26 Dec '12 08:01 pm
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Fighting is an element which gives an opportunity to understand each others better . Fight is a bit broad term and include physical assult also - if you meant that - I dont know whether that is love at all.

small quarral and after that peace war ... is vital in married relationship and evry couple has to go via that .... in fact when there is a small fight or argument then only we understand how matured the person is . Think about the love after fight !! saying sorry to each other .. bringing gift next day .. how sweet ...moments .. lot of nakhras --
Answered by joyesh chakraborty, 26 Dec '12 08:14 pm

 
  
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Fight is inherent part in martial life.....i dont mean physical fights...
Answered by drdinesh sharma, 27 Dec '12 01:11 am

 
  
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U seem to hold that a notion that marriage means unconditional love. No, that is wrong.
Marriage is full of conditions, not only conditions placed by the parties involved, but conditions imposed by Society as well. Wedlock is the LAST place i wud look for... to see unconditional love!
Answered by Shunmugham, 26 Dec '12 08:17 pm

 
  
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Yes Sir good question.there is no fight between couples in a meaningful Love.but there are some situations that arise,to prove their unconditional Love for each other and to sacrifice their happiness for other..it definitely strengthens their Love.
Answered by magi, 26 Dec '12 08:07 pm

 
  
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Love is blind but marriage opens the eyes
Answered by Ajay, 02 Jan '13 04:37 pm

 
  
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It is lack of trust and misunderstanding, openness in them is missing due to suspicion
Answered by saranathan Narasimhan, 27 Dec '12 12:12 pm

 
  
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I have been saying all the time, a feeling between boy and girl is not love and thus cannot be unconditional. Love is one which a mother has for her child and that is by all means unconditional.
Answered by dinkar shetty, 27 Dec '12 07:53 am

 
  
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Not all marriages are the outcome of true love. Most marriages are the result of contract, circumstances and compulsion. Very few marriages are the outcome of true heer ranjha love with an element of true longing and sacrifice.. Thus, without a sense
of oneness which is responsible for
adjustment, love, care and understanding
under any circumstances, love cannot exist. Even the so called love marriages are not really prompted by true love...or else they would have been eternal and love between the couple would have been unconditional... It's the element of ego that stands as a barrier and mars the relationship between them and whatever love existed goes on waning and eventually gets destroyed...
Answered by aruna v, 26 Dec '12 11:32 pm

 
  
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After marriage its conditional ,if you remember all the 7 vows
Answered by Quest, 26 Dec '12 09:53 pm

 
  
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Love is certainly unconditinal........i knw sir let me knw whthr or not the latter part becms true for me too in my life as its just observation of mine on others let me realise it wat happnes why fights occur even if they are got married by alove marraige....so let me realise it too.....soon.i can answer u ha ha ha...........:-))
Answered by Bhuvana, 26 Dec '12 09:20 pm

 
  
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