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I want to take up a job-Where as my MIL is not too keen about it !! My husband is saying it is fine too !!
What should I do then ??

Tags: relationships, careers, mil
Asked by Radha, 05 Oct '12 12:16 pm
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Your MIL should not have the final word on such issue. Let her mind her own business. If you and your husband feel that you should take a job, take it. It will keep you busy and also earn valuable income for the family. As the income keeps on coming, even your MIL will realise your taking up of a job was good for all.
Answered by Francisco, 05 Oct '12 12:32 pm

 
  
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There are 2 ways of dealing any matter. First, going by rules, provisions and rights. Second, taking a decision duly considering the ground situation. Latter is always good than the former. Not necessary, all people are enlightened. If the person who has to take decision has more exposure and experience of the present world, analyse the whole situation and assess what is more ideal decision under such situation. You may have to consider, what is financially beneficial, sacrificing financial benefit to derive a more satisfactory life if worth, satisfying people around us worth the financial benefit sacrifice, your own future. It is always worth convincing other person when a decision is taken of their not liking. Money is not the sole thing of getting happiness.
Answered by dinkar shetty, 05 Oct '12 12:55 pm

 
  
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It's just like if the one is obeyed, the other will become automatically otherwise...A wise approach is needed to resolve this simple but complex issue...Better, persuade you spouse to persuade his mother and convince her :-)
Answered by Dil Se, 05 Oct '12 12:34 pm

 
  
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As husband has declared it 'Fin' , thn why not he assists U to persuade MIL!!!!
Answered by Nitin Ray, 05 Oct '12 12:19 pm

 
  
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It is you and your husband that is running your home. It is easy to tell others what to do, when you do not have to suffer the results of that choice.
Answered by Thomas Reed, 05 Oct '12 09:03 pm

 
  
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