THIS FORUM LOST ITS GLAMOR & GLORY. Am very sad to see these fights and vengeance for nothing. Once they were very caring and loving to each other. Now compitating to throw dirt to each other for silly reasons. Seniors getting insulted. I loved this forum and its peoples very much. But now am feeling discomfort here. Can they again become friends like before ? Am planning to quit. DO YOU THINK THE SAME ?
- Why, why and why?
- What has been achieved or what was the purpose in the first place for this carnage?
- Has human beings lost their last vestige of compassion & ability to feel for each other?
-In the end, what have they achieved?
And inspite of the pain of wanton desolation, still able to pick yourselves up and bring back some semblance of normality in a world that is loosing its sense of direction and is too inwardly mindset that, we never realise the consequences of the action that we have unleashed.
No, Peekay. You CANNOT QUIT. If I remember correctly, a long time back in October 07 you had been anointed as 'Bheeshma Pitama' on this Forum by none less than Cocktail who was in a way the soul of this Forum for those who knew him & who made every attempt to maintain a sense ...more
I remember an old saying "don't spread yourself too thin" which is reiterated into the ongoing happenings at our forum.People are taking too much liberty to make personal attacks, there's a wrong misunderstanding but who cares, all are amused by playing their parts with few or more words of insult & hatred.I hope we will get back our tempo, the hangover will end soon when people will realize what they will get from such demoralizing arguments (it's not the cheapest adjective in my book).To continue with your feelings regarding this forum and forum members, I never had the idea that there are interesting and generous people across the world whom I never knew till the time I became regular here.The forum acquaint myself with the vast world full of like minded souls, which would have been entirely unknown to me.Yeah, this forum was more interesting and people were relatively more supportive, more interested in thought sharing.I remember how many tim ...more
I personally feel that insults hurled by faceless people means nothing to us. Those whom we know very well and when they say something loaded with hidden meaning or don't say it to us but discuss elsewhere, it really hurts.
Same way everybody, seniors or juniors have self respect. Each member should be respected. We should remember this. The worst part is some of the members courted controversy knowing all consequences beforehand.
As I said whatever is happening can at its best or worst be termed as misunderstanding and can be sorted out by applying the principle of forgive & forget.
I would like to be the first to extend my apologies to anyone or everyone if any of my actions have hurt anyone. I wouldn't go into who was right or who was wrong and I don't carry forward bad vibes also unlike . . .
What happened was deplorable. Period.
There is no denying and no justification.
Your quitting on this issue would send wrong signals. There is no guarantee, absolutely no guarantee that it won't happen again. Believe me, whatever I say to stand by your side or anyone else says, because technological advancements are double-edged swords going both ways and in this case, it would be in the hands of perpetrators too.
In this open forum, such things can't be stopped. You get one id blocked, another one will come up. It's easy. We need to learn with certain potential hazards and if it comforts I am together with you in the same boat.
I can quit it anytime I wish to. Probably one of the binding things here is s ...more