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I have joined a office few weeks back..There is a girl in the office ,who is very beautiful and whom i like very much...its been just 2 weeks i have met her and i have gone crazy for her..as a result,i am not able to work properly. Every time i look back and see her on her desk and want to talk to her..When she talks to some other guy i feel jealous and also when she goes for lunch and tea i follow her..it is really getting worse
But on the other hand she has her own friend circle but she talks to me .I like her but i dont wanna spoil my career because i know she wont like me and love me..a
Asked by vikash,
28 May '12 10:27 pm
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Somehow try to sit opposite her so that you do not have to look back every time. Two weeks is quite long. One day is enough to fall in love. It is normal to feel jealous when some other guy talks to her since you feel she belongs to you.
There is no need to spoil your career but why you feel she won't like and love you is surprising.
There is possibility that she may like you. Try to talk to her during tea breaks and you will get some clue whether she likes you or not.
Answered by Francisco, 28 May '12 10:31 pm
There is no need to spoil your career but why you feel she won't like and love you is surprising.
There is possibility that she may like you. Try to talk to her during tea breaks and you will get some clue whether she likes you or not.
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1. God has created Beautiful Women very carefully with utmost nurture & concentration so that people can admire the beauty.
2. U must be knowing the adage, " Beauty is to Look & Not to Touch". So adore her & feel lucky that she at least she talks to U. U shd be obliged, no !!
3. It is better to concentrate on Ur work at office & if U want to get crazy at all, be at ur solitude with in ur imagination & dream !!
4. Be a good guy & hv a nice girl friend if ur endeavour to get this beautiful woman fails.
5. Best of Luck & Best Wishes.
Answered by Sameer Bhagat, 29 May '12 07:16 pm
2. U must be knowing the adage, " Beauty is to Look & Not to Touch". So adore her & feel lucky that she at least she talks to U. U shd be obliged, no !!
3. It is better to concentrate on Ur work at office & if U want to get crazy at all, be at ur solitude with in ur imagination & dream !!
4. Be a good guy & hv a nice girl friend if ur endeavour to get this beautiful woman fails.
5. Best of Luck & Best Wishes.
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One piece of advise... get humorous!
in other words, get jovial, extrovert, talk to girls, say hi when greeting, get friendly. you'd definitely begin to notice the difference in yourself! after some period, give her a yellow rose. then a simple present. then maybe her birthday present.
girls do like loving and being loved. in fact, to be frank, girls love and enjoy sex way more than boys. boys fantasize a lot, often without success. girls too fantasize, but not to that extent. a girl would like herself to be pampered, cared. all exclusively. if your "girl" gets that, then you'd be sleeping with her in no time.
you'd definitely thank me some day for this advise if you follow without disclosing to your male friends/colleagues.
Answered by diva divani, 29 May '12 01:21 pm
in other words, get jovial, extrovert, talk to girls, say hi when greeting, get friendly. you'd definitely begin to notice the difference in yourself! after some period, give her a yellow rose. then a simple present. then maybe her birthday present.
girls do like loving and being loved. in fact, to be frank, girls love and enjoy sex way more than boys. boys fantasize a lot, often without success. girls too fantasize, but not to that extent. a girl would like herself to be pampered, cared. all exclusively. if your "girl" gets that, then you'd be sleeping with her in no time.
you'd definitely thank me some day for this advise if you follow without disclosing to your male friends/colleagues.
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Avoid hasty conclusions and unwanted actions . This is all result of emotional misunderstandings. The day it is revealed that she has no feelings for you except that as a colleague , you will feel depressed. Better concentrate on your job
Answered by nemi jain, 29 May '12 09:39 am
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Give yourself some time try being natural be frnds with her and see how long you can go...
Answered by Jatin, 28 May '12 10:46 pm
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It was just a your imagination on mutual attraction of your age. you have just started your carrier. dont spoil your future. concentrate on your carrier . and dont make inconvenience to your costaff.
Answered by Panneer Selvam, 28 May '12 10:42 pm
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Uspe dhyan mat do...
ladki k chakkar me rahoge to sab kuch kho baithogi
never look at face of a girl
chup chap ram ram kaho aur apna office ka kaam karo
Answered by ambuj kumar, 28 May '12 10:34 pm
ladki k chakkar me rahoge to sab kuch kho baithogi
never look at face of a girl
chup chap ram ram kaho aur apna office ka kaam karo
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Betta carear pe dhayan de. Shakal dekh k attraction hota h pyar nahi.
Meri baat man real experience h apna + doston ka.
Answered by tanha dil, 28 May '12 10:32 pm
Meri baat man real experience h apna + doston ka.
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