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I got a marriage proposal .. the boy has good salary and a very good academic (IIT Delhi pass out) but the problem is he is not so handsome very simple .. if i judge him on a 20 point scale he got only 3 .. and i got 15 .. what should i do?

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Asked by Anchal Singh, 02 Jun '12 07:04 pm
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Until you get to know this boy you cannot make any judgement. Looks are not everything - find out about his character and personality and whether you have common interests and beliefs and can make each other laugh. Until then you have slipped down on the point scale by 10 for trying to judge him too soon.
Answered by Janis, 02 Jun '12 08:26 pm

 
  
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If he has good academic career and also good salary AND good character (you have not mentioned anything about his character), I would give him 15 out of 20. Respect his simplicity but check his character. Being simple is actually good.
You giving him just 3 and giving yourself 15 out of 20 is not right. Others should give you marks out of 20.
Answered by Francisco, 02 Jun '12 07:08 pm

 
  
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You should say yes for that marriage proposal , you are lucky that you gonna have that kind of boy who is well settled, so be so choosy think about your future and accept it
Answered by Psycho, 02 Jun '12 07:06 pm

 
  
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R u beautiful put ur photo in profile and us approve it, waise bhi his face will not be visible in dark , or if he is good otherwise follow the principal cover the face , fu the base
Answered by Gernal Singh, 02 Jun '12 07:08 pm

 
  
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1. It appears tht U dont like this alliance. So better to reject it.
2. But pl remember, look is only skin deep. when a persopn is aquainted & mixed with, then his worthiness is revealed well.
3. Why not before rejecting, know the person well by mixing for few hrs for a few days ( it aways happens in negotialtion marriage now a days).
4. What abt the man ( boy U mentioned)- whether he has liked U? Both sides r to be seen, no ?
Answered by Nitin Ray, 02 Jun '12 07:15 pm

 
  
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Badhai ho :-))) bass itna dekho ki singh hai ya nahi ,,,,aakhir aap rajpoot jo thahre
Answered by Prince Deva, 02 Jun '12 07:08 pm

 
  
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It can change , he can dress a little fashionable, just talk with him, this is minor issue, many people change after marriage so discuss your issues with him
Answered by kamini joshi, 02 Jun '12 08:28 pm

 
  
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Such a big problem Anchal Jee. I would not go for a boy like him, jiski shakal na pasand ho, uske saath zindagi kaise bitaoge aap? Hai na soch ne wali baat??
Answered by Diya, 02 Jun '12 07:18 pm

 
  
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Wait and watch.
i would like to know more about "so handsome".
will you please tell me how he is handsome by body,mind and spirit.
Answered by bhanwar bothra, 02 Jun '12 07:13 pm

 
  
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What others think about is not important.

What your conscious says is more important.

If u think u can be happy with the guy proceed or else leave.
Answered by anantharaman, 02 Jun '12 07:11 pm

 
  
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