I feel if in relationship U dont need to love each other's families, but you need to be on the same page about how much U will include them in your lives. If there's no spark, forget it. It depends on talk of shared values, dont forget this primal truth; there needs to be a sizzle. In such uncertain economic times, its easy for women to tell themselves that stability is more important than attraction, but u need chemistry for a relationship to work. If u have been together for years, you are not necessarily pinning each other down, d minute u get in d door. M i rite??