I really love my wife and I support her in her career. Im also working.. Now we are facing a problem. My wife is gonna deliver our first baby next month and she got 3 month maternity leave. We both living alonse here in Bangalore and no one to look after. I realy dont want to send my baby to day care center but i want my baby to grow up in mothers love and my life. I hate to tell my wife to stop working for sometime. I dont know how she would feel.. I really dont want to hinder her from pursuing her dreams. Can some one who is married, preferably a female give me advice. Please help us.
I guess yours was an arranged match
I quote some paragrphs from story of Mrs. Sudha Narayana - a graet lady
It was about creation and distribution of wealth. His dreams were grander than my career plans, in all aspects. So, when I had to choose between Murthy's career and mine, I opted for what I thought was the right choice. We had a home and two little children. Somebody had to take care of it all.
Somebody had to stay behind to create a home base that would be fertile for healthy growth, happiness, and more dreams to dream. I became that somebody willingly.
Then, I realized that to make Infosys a success, one had to give 100 per cent. One had to be focused on it alone, with no other distractions. If the two of us had to give 100 percent to Infosys, what would happen to our home and our children? I opted to be a homemaker; after all, Infosys was Murthy's dream. It was a big sacrifice, but it was one that had to be made. Even today, Murthy says, "Sudha, I stepped on your career to make mine. You are respon ...more