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I am not against inter caste or inter religious marriages. But feels that most of such marriages fail because there is no paper work done before such marriages. They fail to assess the role of environment they have been brought up like customs,role of their ( both caste based and religion based)festivals in their private life etc etc. Comment

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Asked by Josna, 21 Jan '13 07:45 pm
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You are very correct,the adjustment,understanding and sacrificing the personal comforts for the sake of the welfare of the family is possible to a great extent when two minds(husband and wife) emotional bonds are strong.And such bonds will be further strengthened due to following common belief system,customs and traditions.If getting into inter caste or inter religious marriages are inevitable at least each of the two should try to understand the fabric of each others culture that makes the life successful, and develop such a magnanimous mindset to respect each others culture and practice best among the both for a better life.
Answered by Ramakrishnegowda, 21 Jan '13 08:03 pm

 
  
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One has to be really mature to make intercaste, religious , racial marriages work. Its from both sides, its hardwork for both, if one is prepared then okay otherwise they dont work
Answered by kamini joshi, 21 Jan '13 09:04 pm

 
  
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No I dont think so. They get accustomed with each others' customs & rituals wth the fragrance of Luv !!!!!!
Answered by nitin ray, 21 Jan '13 08:19 pm

 
  
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When people are in LOVE they never realise to the consequences ............... without Love these type of marriages are not possible ............ and marriages are known as eye opener , when theirs eyes are open after the marriage , they use to realise their mistake and selection of their match become unmatched ........
Answered by pradeep mishra, 21 Jan '13 07:52 pm

 
  
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..a1. This is not the reason. They usually have two set of paper works.
..a2. True and likely.. Also when there is controversy, family support may be lacking from both sides.
Answered by M H Kisan, 21 Jan '13 07:51 pm

 
  
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As a matter of fact, a good majority of love marriages, whether same caste or intercaste tend to end in failure
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 21 Jan '13 08:16 pm

 
  
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No dear i dnt feel dis way .............i knw of intr caste marriages dat hve lasted a life time dey r happy nd celebrate al festivals together
Answered by Nie, 21 Jan '13 07:52 pm

 
  
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Interreligious marriages i do not like because this is always one way street , only Hindu girls are going out of hindu fold after maraiage to muslim/christian youth, it never happens with Hindu boys with Muslim/Christian girl
Answered by SREENIVAS, 21 Jan '13 07:52 pm

 
  
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U mean....not marriage....its a contract system.......
Answered by sukhjit singh, 21 Jan '13 07:48 pm

 
  
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