Using your phone's internet browser
go to:  qna.rediff.com
Click and drag this link to
the Home icon in your browser.
Q.

My m--om who was working in pvt copmany just retired and come to stay with us since i am only doughter to her i seen some make friend come to meet her and take her for day out what she do with them we dont know when we ask she just say dont worry . atleat 4 differnt male comes to her once week is she have affire with them is she go out to hotel for s--ex second thing is she wear very transperant nightys with out bra in house this make my hubby also get attracted to her what shall i do now i cant send out since i am lone doughter please advise only genion people

Asked by smita patil, 29 Oct '08 05:04 pm
  Invite a friend  |  
  Save  |  
 Earn 10 points for answering
Answer this question  Earn 10 points for answering    
4000 characters remaining  
  
    
Keep me signed inNew User? Sign up

Answers (13)

1.

363 days ago, you said your mother is around 53......... http://qna.rediff.com/Main.php?do=getanswer&catid=12&questid=4456 216 .......and 327 days ago you say that you are 43 years old.....did your mother give birth to you when she was 10...strage are the ways of the world...
Answered by RAJAN MHAMAI, 29 Oct '08 05:11 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
2.

Send her to yr brother . few days back you had asked that you saw your younger brothers wife smoking ... now where has he gone ? is he dies or what ?
Answered by joyesh chakraborty, 29 Oct '08 05:09 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
3.

Allow ur hubby to do sex with ur mom and make ur mom to get arrested within ur home
Answered by vinay, 01 Jun '10 09:31 am

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
4.

Everybody, please have a look at the question he/she asked before.
Answered by Pushpraj Joseph, 29 Oct '08 06:44 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
5.

If what you say and imply are true, you cant treat it simply. Have a frank and open discussion and confront her with your doubts and divert her and engage her in spending her time spiritually! Tell her about her dress in clear terms and make kit clear that it wont do. Dont involve your husband in this. Make it clear that she cant have her way in these matters.You cant be emotional and sentimental in such matters!
Answered by Kannan, 29 Oct '08 05:24 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
6.

I think someone should take SMITA PATIL to a mental hospital...
Answered by Subraya Hegde, 29 Oct '08 05:14 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
7.

This type of behaviour you must have had observed before your marriage also. What she does out of the house is none of your concern as she is an individual and has every right to live her life in her own way. But if she is trying to attract your hubby for sex, then it's totally wrong. What I suggest is, observe for few more days and be 100% sure, then speak to her and tell the truth. Tell her, you attracting my hubby will not be tolerated. You too have to save your family.
Answered by Raj Thakre, 29 Oct '08 05:13 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
8.

If she is retired , she must be in her sixties or late 50's. do you think a lady with that age and experience can do anything wrong. PLease remove bad feelings for her from your mind. In case you do not like her cloths, you may do some shopping for her. Do not keave her alone all the time. Take her outside, go shopping, cook something special for her. She may be very social. You should not think negatively. Had she thought about you and your friends same thing you would not have done your college. So be positive . Think she is your mama. TReat her in that way. Sit with her and take her to temple. Because of her loneliness she must be social. If you give her time, she will slowly get involved in your family. Take away her lonliness from her. DOnt worry . Be positive. after all she is more experienced than you and at that age people will not go wrong as they must have already got many jerks in their young age
Answered by koena, 29 Oct '08 05:11 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
9.

You did not say what her age / profession are??
Consult with totalpro [to get good advice ] THIS is rediff mail box
Answered by Sanjeev Suri, 29 Oct '08 05:10 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
10.

She lived her life and gave you life. As long as it is not deflating your own family repute in the society, please bear with her. Old habits die hard but after all she is your mother. If she go out, she may become more rebelian. Keep in your house, try to put restrictions if you do not like slowly and progressively.
Answered by Chinna, 29 Oct '08 05:10 pm

 
  
Report abuse
Useful
 (0)
Not Useful
 (0)
Your vote on this answer has already been received
Previous

Ask a Question

Get answers from the community

600 characters remaining

Related Answer

Q.
A

How your age has come down from 54 to 39...?..more

Answered by bhaskar erram