Though the male as well as female indulge in the sex and enjoy its irresistible pleasure , yet why the female is the one who has to carry the load of the lust of male as well as the abuse , disdain and scorn all her life .
In Guru Granth Sahib, we hv a whole verse on woman which tells all of us to respect the woman.
God's primary motive in adding the sex angle was not pleasure but reproduction. The fact that it was pleasurable offered the necessary incentive to undertake the activity.
As an added safety feature, God gave man a reproductive organ with a mind of its own - Moral character - (necessarily obey the commands from the High Command). Say you meet a nice girl, and there is a mutual attraction. The High Command says, Wait! Take it easy. Get to know her. Be a gentleman. Develop real love for her and get married to her. In all religion sex outside marriage is considered as SIN.
There are three distinct types or stages of "love":
1. Affection you love to be with your loved one as a freind
2. may be you develop Attraction, or romantic passion
3. Attachment, or commitment
While the initial feelings may come from affection, what happens next -- if the relationship is to progress -- is attraction. ...more