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How to handle insults?

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Asked by ankit shivam, 11 Oct '12 10:27 am
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Once an angry man insulted the Buddha. The Buddha simply asked the man if people ever visited him in his home. Surprised at the change of topic, the man answered yes.

The Buddha then asked if his visitors ever brought gifts. When the man replied yes again, the Buddha asked what would happen if he refused to accept the gifts? Who would the gifts belong to then? The man said that, of course, they would still belong to those who brought them.

The Buddha then calmly and kindly said, "In the same way, since I do not accept your insults, they remain with you."
Answered by LIPSIKA, 11 Oct '12 10:32 am

 
  
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Dear friend, if you are are nice. Dont feel that you are being insulted. The first thing I would like to suggest is that dont feel that anybody whom you are speaking dont like you. Be perfect on your part and dont try to impress them. Definitely you will feel free. Free mind and soul will definitely make them to come to you again. Please never forget that real beauty and impression comes only if you are free minded.
Answered by sanjeev, 11 Oct '12 10:29 am

 
  
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Not to react the same moment. Time is the best healer.
Answered by dinkar shetty, 11 Oct '12 12:53 pm

 
  
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First think whether you are worth it or not. If yes, then accept the same gracefully as it must be a result of your deed. But if not, then just ignore the same. We cant change the society but at least we can change our self. We should be so strong (mentally) that nothing can affect our peace of mind.
Answered by suvakanta samantray, 11 Oct '12 11:25 am

 
  
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Just drop the pants for further action
Answered by Gernal Singh, 11 Oct '12 10:33 am

 
  
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Convert URself like fastblowing wind....whoever spits at U will be blemished with his own spit.....
Answered by Pradipta pati, 11 Oct '12 11:07 am

 
  
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Put it under carpet :p
Answered by MAdhavan Avadhany, 11 Oct '12 10:34 am

 
  
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Girls are always show jealous attitude so don't think about it and mind you own business.
Answered by anju chauhan, 11 Oct '12 10:32 am

 
  
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Ignore and forget all about it..!
Answered by Annes, 11 Oct '12 10:30 am

 
  
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Tit for tat
Answered by iqbal seth, 11 Oct '12 10:30 am

 
  
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