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How to Get Control When Your Child is Making You Angry

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Asked by RukhsanaSiddiqui, 10 Sep '13 07:31 pm
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Children seek our time, love and affection. If we do not pay attention to them, they are likely to play some naughty tricks to attract attention.
Play with the child, show lot of affection and I can assure you that your child will not do anything to make you angry.
Answered by Francisco, 10 Sep '13 07:41 pm

 
  
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When you get yourself under control, your kids will also usually calm down. Remember, calm is contagiousand so is anxiety. When we as parents are nervous or anxious, its been proven that it creates anxiety in our kids. I would even go so far as to say that being emotionally reactive is probably your greatest concern as a parent. Think of it this way: if you cant get calmif you cant get to zerothen what youre really doing is inadvertently creating the exact atmosphere youre trying to avoid.
we cant calm down well probably create exactly what were trying to avoidfailure. Think about someone you know who is calm and serene; their presence helps center everybody in the room. When youre calm, thats the effect it has on your child and your family. It will help your child de-escalate, learn how to soothe himself when hes nervous or agitated, and will make him better able to do what he has to do in tense moments. And in that moment, he wont have to fight against you, because youve effectively ...more
Answered by Ataur Rahman, 10 Sep '13 07:38 pm

 
  
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Apply Carrot & Stick method !!
Answered by Nitin Ray, 10 Sep '13 08:06 pm

 
  
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Think mother
Answered by alok khatore, 11 Sep '13 09:33 am

 
  
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Children never make anybody angry. It is only we who do not understand them fully and get angry some times.
Answered by dinkar shetty, 11 Sep '13 09:21 am

 
  
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Children are a GREAT OCCASION to learn and grow in life. Never miss it.
All that u have missed to learn urself, children will give u second chance. We just have to be OPEN and see them, standing on their shoes. They will show u many facts of life which u have failed to notice. And we have a responsibility to be so, as well. See this as an opportunity and move ahead. Children can transform ur life!
Answered by Shunmugham, 10 Sep '13 08:13 pm

 
  
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Need to control your anger by rememebering to yourself that the child is not mature to realise that what is right and what is wrong
Answered by PRANIL MUNGEKAR, 10 Sep '13 07:38 pm

 
  
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Discipline...
Answered by Kiran, 10 Sep '13 07:35 pm

 
  
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Distraction.
Answered by victor, 10 Sep '13 07:33 pm

 
  
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Some children are overactive nd naughty which makes us intolerable to them sometimes, at that time we only have to remember that loosing any temper on them will never help but increase the trouble. Children understand by the way of love, so hold the nerves and use the trick which you know is sure to work on your kid to distract his attention to better things to calm both of you down .
Answered by Ginger, 10 Sep '13 08:38 pm

 
  
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