Think positively; speak properly; apologize rapidly; forgive quickly. Evolve your being and inspire yourself and others. Say it out loud, I am sorry negativity, I have no time for you. I have far too many positive things to do.
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Attractiveness and magnetism of your personality is the result of your inner radiance. If you are beautiful inside, you will never be spiteful, come what the provocation may. It is not the case of easy going appearance. It is true tolerance and understanding the human nature. It is not laid back one also. It is an active participation in practice of passivity. Smile and understand. Tolerate. You will be attractive. I am sure.