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I had an affair with a girl of different religion from last 7 years,i want to marry her,but my parents totally disagreed because of there status, cast, religion & stronglly that mangli factor, i m living with my parents & i m alone with no brother & sister. they r saying that they have a lot of faith in me.so plz dont break it. I know they will not accept her in any how condition, I join my father in my business & do not have any other personal source of income, i love my parents but i love her tooo. , suggest me shld i leave that girl or my parents ????????plz plz

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Asked by rahul gupta, 25 Jul '10 04:13 pm
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Ha ha mr. rahul if u hav your job in your hand and no problem from girl family... so u can proceed ...with stay with that girl...afterall love is life so...... bad me parents bhi tumhare saat aa jayenge,,...so parents ko bhi to pyaar hai na tujhase...
Answered by internetismoney, 09 Nov '11 12:55 pm

 
  
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Don't leave your parents, convince them, you oved her knowingly that your parents will not accept.
Answered by veeravenkata satyanarayana, 16 Jun '11 06:32 pm

 
  
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Remember of "Honour Killing" rampantly practiced in some parts of this country ! So be a good boy and look after ur dad's business. U'll get lol of gals and will forget her.
Answered by nitin ray, 23 Apr '11 01:55 pm

 
  
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Do not think it as a choice of either /or
keep trying to convince your parents esp.your mother
Answered by anil garg, 25 Jul '10 05:07 pm

 
  
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Actualy u on a situation where u can select only 1 either ur parents or ur love. almost all pple who r in true love alwz find this kind of difficulty. and I'm realy welcome this question though this a public place u share your family matter.
See Mr. Rahul Gupta, If u consider my openion, I must say that u must not break your parents faith. u must be ur parents side. u may feel that y should I support 2 my parent? because watevr u earn n watevr u will be earn in future is only bcoz of ur parents she is in ur lyf 4m last 7 yrs but ur parents is alwz with u in ur failure n success.
Though dis is a 21st century, we mst nt follow cast, religion n manglik prob but dis is a truth u n me cn't change this.n no 1 will change this. though in future u decide 2 marry wid her I'm assure u dat, ur parents will nt wid u , it may possible dat u n ur betterhalf may face financial problems. its ok ur parents may be forgive bt hw many yrs dey will support u? I knw I mst nt tal ...more
Answered by Minal, 25 Jul '10 04:43 pm

 
  
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Dear Better you take decision your own life. Life is hand, you have to run family. good.
Answered by Vasudevan Govindarao, 25 Jul '10 04:26 pm

 
  
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C agar tum us ladki se sacha pyaar karte go toh uske saat bhagke shaadi kar lo yaa phir agar tum apne parents se usse se bhi zyaada pyaar karte ho toh apne parents se keh do ki tum us ladki se utna hi pyaar karte ho jitna une
Answered by ANOUSHKA ROY, 25 Jul '10 04:19 pm

 
  
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In this condition explain yr problem to girl and ask her to go for marriage some where else,as u have to select from either of one
Answered by sushil trivedi, 25 Jul '10 04:16 pm

 
  
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Try to convince your parents with the affair you have encountered and marry her truthfully
Answered by saranathan Narasimhan, 25 Jul '10 04:16 pm

 
  
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