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Am in a open relationship from 1 year my boy friend is staying in Chennai and am staying in Bangalore..... am feeling like my boy friend have some other girl there in Chennai plz advice me wat to do how to find out

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Asked by priya gadgiker, 22 Dec '09 08:42 pm
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An open relationship is defined as one in which each partner is free to have emotional or physical relations outside . So dont say u r in an open relationship. Indeed, long distance relations are difficult to mantain. Point is , you "feel" he has some other girl out there. Why dont u just share this fear with him. Your suspicion may not be true. One has to give benefit of doubt in a long distance relation.
Answered by RAJAN MHAMAI, 23 Dec '09 04:40 pm

 
  
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Dear Priyaji, It happens in a distant relationship when u r far from your luvd one's. Yes I am with you that he must be surely having someone in Chennai and also talking to you luvy-duvy to keep the relation alive. U cant put a check on this becoz u r so far from him. Have you met him personally atleast once to know his character and background of his family??? If not I would suggest pl dont waste your energy and affection becoz its a saying "Dur se dur to nazron se dur bhi" so he may be having gala time. I am not discouraging you but plz try to understand then its your wish. Regards and al d best. tke care Cyrus
Answered by cyrus irani, 23 Dec '09 03:43 pm

 
  
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Make a new id with girl name..tyr to talk toher..and find out how he talks with other girls
Answered by Rabindranath Sahu, 22 Dec '09 08:47 pm

 
  
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Well do one thing ask any of ur frnd girl in chennai to ask him or call him and flirt with him, if he likes to have relationship with her then he is flirt leave him, if he says he s not interested then he is still commited to u
Answered by chiku, 23 Apr '10 12:36 pm

 
  
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Go and find out yourself , after all it is not a long journey
Answered by indrajeet, 06 Jan '10 08:27 pm

 
  
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Distant relationship is difficult to maintain. if u have some doubt just clear it now.
Answered by huzefa husain, 27 Dec '09 07:16 pm

 
  
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Instead of trusting you cant do anything, just think if your boy friend think about you the same way
Answered by Anand Agarwal, 26 Dec '09 02:40 pm

 
  
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Talk openly to him. If u have faith in him then don't bother. See to it that whether he also think about u as u r thinking about him.
Answered by ajit daga, 23 Dec '09 10:52 pm

 
  
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It can happen because guys are always behind to make more and more relationship esp when they know no one is watching. It happens with me also. I also like to make more friends. Hey why dont you also make new friends. You can catch me : anupam_3@yahoo.com
Answered by Anupam Agarwal, 23 Dec '09 06:05 am

 
  
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